Oh yeah, I didn't mean to imply it's just women. I'm talking as a heteromantic guy.
I used to be that way myself. Though, I think that had a lot to do with the trauma of my first gf trying to kill herself. We moved way too fast at such a young age that I kinda freaked out. We were talking marriage and a bunch of other dumb **** after only a month or two. I was in over my head, so I broke up with her, and she ended up in the hospital after slitting her wrists in the tub, and I spent months trying to keep her from doing it again, and I accidentallylef her on at certain points… It made me afraid to get close to anyone. I just retreated into shallowness and shallow relationships until THE ex.

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Oof. Fugazi doesn't have a good history with those.
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There are no facts in this area. Only schools of thought
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No, I'm saying you can fact check anything I say and you'll see that what I say is correct.

What you know can’t be wrong?
Textbook narcissism
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Never said I was, but nothing I say about the subject is wrong. I only speak on what I know.

Nobody is mistaking you for a mental health expert, fella
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That's a very narcissistic response.
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Not really. You ****brains here need to expand your vocabulary. Not everything is narcissism.

Sounds more like NPD
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They do.
It may look a little different in presentation but "hurt them before they get a chance to hurt me" is classic bpd and bpd affects the living **** out of relationships.
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Men don't do this.
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Like reject or abandon you before you can reject them lol.
Or to avoid being abandoned, they always keep a distance.
That just sounds like a classic bpd symptom.
Men definitely do this too.
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Your experience???
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It's not. Just talking from my perspective/experience.

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Didn’t think it was gender-specific.

I was thinking more of the ex I never shut up about lol.
I only do that **** here. Like I don't even talk to my sister or bestie about her as much. They wouldn't mind, but I'd rather dump my emotions into this hellhole.

The problem with women with abandonment issues is you think because they don't wanna be abandoned, they won't abandon you, but they're probably more likely than others to do so.
Like reject or abandon you before you can reject them lol.
Or to avoid being abandoned, they always keep a distance.
Monicha
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The problem with women with abandonment issues is you think because they don't wanna be abandoned, they won't abandon you, but they're probably more likely than others to do so.
Like reject or abandon you before you can reject them lol.
Or to avoid being abandoned, they always keep a distance.
I remember my ex telling me about a dream she had where she locked herself in her room and I was like knocking, and wanting to come in, and then I burst through the door, we embraced, and she felt peaceful and sleepy in the dream. I feel like her dream kinda summed up the abture of our relationship. Except in the end irl, she pushed my ass back out the door.

I'm leaving her.
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No threats just pls don’t do it or I’ll cry.

Don’t threaten me, neebur
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