It happens sometimes when a boy doesn't get along with his mother or had a 7ecnasty childhood experience where he couldn't get enough child support.
BTW,
to him!

His wife is 14 years older than him not 20 years older than him that's very similar too the age gap of Hugh Jackman and his wife men in countries like france spain portugal greece and malta like women older than them usually 10 years older than them and more than 10 years older than them.
https://www.google.co.uk/#q=Emmanuel+Macron

I wouldn't mind dating a woman 13 years older than me even 15 years older than me that would make the woman late 40's by the time i'm in my late 40's she will be in her early 60's.

Yes it is better to be with older women like our french finance minister Emmanuel Macron. His wife Brigitte is almost 20 years older than him. She used to be his teacher in high school. He is way richer than her. She was divorced with children and grand children before marrying him.
I hope he becomes our president one day because he is a very smart and talented politician