<![CDATA[You guys can preach as much as you want about her strength (which i'm not putting in doubt), or how we all grieve differ]]>Archived from the IMDb Discussion Forums — Jennifer Hudson

hablame — 13 years ago(December 25, 2012 07:06 AM)

You guys can preach as much as you want about her strength (which i'm not putting in doubt), or how we all grieve differently (evidently true, but not the whole explanation), but still, psyc5b4hologically, i don't think it's healthy how she returned to work and the strong pace she took only after 3 months of her family being slaughtered.
I think she will pay the toll (mentally) for it eventually. It's not just a matter of deciding to move on, if it was that simple nobody would be depressed. I lost my father and my aunts in a very short time due to cancer. I had at least sometime to see them extinguish slowly and to prepare, and still, it took me a good time to be able to integrate properly to my daily life again. I can't imagine how would i deal with it if they had been suddenly murdered one day 😕
It just doesn't seem right. SPECIALLY when she is a celebrity, and having to fake smiles and glamour in such a harsh situation. It's not healthy.

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So, either she's supposed to be a total mental basket case or turn into Jodie Foster in "The Brave One"? As has been said in this thread before, different people grieve in different ways. If a loved one dies, you DO have to go on with your life. It's a sign of the amount of strength you have. I'm sure she broke down and cried when she was alone. A person's grief isn't necessarily meant to be seen by the entire world.
"There will be blood. Oh, yes! There
will
be blood."-Jigsaw; "Saw II"

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@hablame
Like I said, one has to go on with one's life. Everyone does not have the luxury of curling up into a ball and shutting themselves away from the world in grief after losing their loved ones. The average person can't even afford to do that. I think we've all gotten our ideas on how to deal with grief from movies, where they have big dramatic crying scenes and all that. Everyone deals with it in their own way, including celebrities, and they shouldn't have to be caught crying every damn day on camera just to prove that they are.

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