I'm just asking you to explain your logic that apparently it is normal and healthy for 16 year olds to be attracted to and potentially fall in love with older men/women, but (and this is where you have to explain) it is wrong for men/women to feel the same way? I don't disagree that many would agree with you, but can you explain why it's apparently so inherently wrong?
You've missed the point of my second question.

I was a teenager when I first fell for him. Looking back if he had wanted me then, I would have gone for it but at the age I am now, I would have looked back on that and realised that was very wrong of him, given he was the adult and I was the child- but he didn't. He had no idea I loved him, granted, but he never would have gone there with me at the age of 15 or even 16/17, he just wasn't a pervy type of guy. Nothing happened until I was a fully grown woman of 24. Had he reciprocated when I was a teenager of 16 or so then yes, he WOULD have been very wrong to. I may not have seen it back then, but yes. So I am no hypocrite, I have an opinion and I'm sticking to it, please try not to make excuses for your own questionable urges.
Yes, it was a relationship. We were seeing each other for 8 months.

So it's entirely natural for you and Bethany to lust/love an older man, but if he were to feel the same way in return then that makes him some kind of deviant sexual predator?
Why did you describe 24/40 as a 'relationship' but 16/30 as a 'shagging'?

I think the other guy was implying I'm a hypocrite, although I really don't see how. Me having a relationship with a man of 40 when I was 24 is absolutely nothing to do with my thoughts on a grown man shagging a teenage schoolgirl

Ah ok, sorry!

I was talking to Gavin.

Nothing happened with him until I was 24, so there was absolutely nothing perverted there, if that's what you mean.

Sorry, I don't get what you mean

Are you actually for real with your hypocrisy (ref your comments in the other thread vs this one)???

She acted it beautifully. It must be very painful.

LOL You have a lot in common with Roman Polanski.

I was 24 when something eventually happened with him, but I had been in love with him since I was 17. He first got with my aunt when I was 15.

Also I wish to see this womans photo, hana

I would also like to see the photo too, hana

How old were you when you were a little Lolita?
Please post a picture of yourself or describe yourself