Can't really choose just one.

• I mean you no harm Jenny Hayden
• Red light stop, green light go, yellow light go very fast
• Deer scene
• Starman carrying Jenny out of the fire
• You're not from around here, are you?
• Starman kissing Shermin
• The ending
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Her hugging him after he's told her about the baby.

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I think the reason why the deer scene resonates with everyone is because of the juxtaposition of how Jenny reacted to it and how the hunters reacted to it. Jenny finally realized that she truly had nothing to fear from this man. And then the hunters came in and started beating the crap out of him. It was very hard to watch them beat up someone who had just shown how much value he puts on all life.
If there ever were a remake today, I think we'd see right after that scene that Jenny starts ordering vegan meals for him.

I'd say the entire diner scene.
The moment in which Jenny describes love. That scene makes me tear up as well. It's both in her voice and behind those baby blues, just how much her heart is aching, and how difficult everything to that point is for her. A magnificent performance by Ms. Allen.
Then he heals the Deer, which is pure magic I think it's also the first time we really see Jenny smile.
When will you ever learn, this feeling is all you can discern?

The scene after he gives her the baby when he is sitting by the opening of the train looking outside, he has this goofy face / smile like he just got laid for the first time. Lol oh he did!! And the yellow light go really fast!

The best scene for me was after Starman kisses Mark Sherman on the lips, Mark turns to large trooper, who shakes his head.

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The scene where the starman finds the hat in the glovebox, puts it on and pulls the same goofy face as Scott does in the home-movies. Jenny's reaction to that is pretty heartwrenching.
The way that Bridges is so alien in this filme while showing glimpses of the man he's brought back to life and Allen still maintains authentic curiosity, sadness and desparation. It's remarkable.
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There's some really outstanding scenes in this movie, but the deer scene always stands out to me too.

Yeah, I have always found the scene with the dead deer incredibly moving. One of the best scenes from any movie.
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Haha when I saw this thread title I was immediately like "The deer scene!!" but I figured nobody else would think so. Great to see there are at least half a dozen people here who noticed that scene too.

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I liked it when the starman stated, "You are at your best when things at at their worst."
OMG I still think of the line often! It was not only perfectly written & perfectly delivered.but its so often TRUE!
Humans are so odd & often cruel, but often when a town gets a hurricane or if a baby on TV needs donations for medical treatment.humans flock to help!
I never understood, even as a human lol, why we can't just be kinder.all the time.
I'd say this cloud is Cumulo Nimbus.
Didn't he discover America?
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Definitely!
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I liked it when the starman stated, "You are at your best when things at at their worst." Many, many great scenes.
Rest in peace, Roger Ebert. You were the best.

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My favorite scene is when the guy in the black hot rod who gave Jenny the ride to catch up with Starman created the diversion with the fuel can explosion. That is something I would like to do.

the end is probably the best final scene in cinema history as far as i am concerned
the fade to black of karen allens beautiful fresh young face looking up is just a magical shot for me
"I wish someone would remake Hollywood"

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When Starman brings Jenny back to life.

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That's my favorite too. This movie may be my favorite; at least top five. I really believe Jeff Bridges should have won an Oscar.