They were crudely debating a woman they didn't expect to pop up from nowhere and speak to them. It took them by surprise. they were embarrassed. Insulting someone behind their back and doing it to their face are entirely different things.

Hey, creepy stalker. Sad that I told the truth about some random actress?

" Listen. You are projecting. You are very immature, and insecure. But women are just people. I am woman. I love video games movies and books. I hate hints and lies. And social things are beyond me. Try to see me as a person. I have nothing in common with other women that aren't basic. Menstruation. A uterus. I have some female traits but you cannot say that women are the same to the point where they all act a certain way today. We don't all change because of media. Or something else. "
This self-description of yours helps the rest of us understand why you might feel the way you do about Julia Roberts.
.... TxMike ....
Make a choice, to take a chance, to make a difference.