I guess people on here defending it would not care if someone lie about being in love, mess with their emotions, sleep around, used them and than left. You can't know what's best for someone else unless you personally know them for a lot more than a month. For all she knew she could have stirred up more hurtful emotions. She was only with them for a month and then dumped them. So it's not like she really knew these men.

I really do not know how the hell you understood the movie, or her actions to be completely reckless or selfish. Sure, yeah granted the idea of living for the moment, in the moment with zero cognizance of a life in the future. She had no such life to look forward to, she knew she was going to die. If trying to make the best out of a messed situation is selfish, then I hope I am able to live fully like she was able to do. She never made any allusions to him than it was going to last forever, and certainly did not MAKE him fall in love with her. Who really makes someone fall in love with them?
If anything truly shaped his life perspective, it was his meeting with Edgar Price and his complete unsympathetic attitude towards the waitress, and his attempt to plagiarize Sun Tzu's quote as his own until Nelson caught him on his BS. Nelson was scared of winding up like that character, so he was clinging on to Sara to save him from the life he was living before he met her.
There was nothing psychotic in her actions. I believe you can not find a more honest, sane way to attempt to handle her situation as she did.

Maybe not a whore but she was selfish and crazy.I think she was a bit inmature,kind of a little girl who enjoys acting crazy.What happened to Nelson was a crime.She made he fell in love with her,made him to have ilusions,knowing she was going to die and they were not going to have future.Of the same way she did not marry him because she was going to die,why didn't she leave Nelson in peace?I think she was playing with people like toys.
Maybe Nelson was a jer.k at the beginning but I don't think she helped him much after loving him and him loving her and she keeping the secret of her illness.She knew she had not future,and she lied to Nelson making him believe they had a future.
I mean,that guy changed,yes,he fell in love with her,he started to make plans and to feel happy and full,and suddenly Sarah,in the best moment,tells him goodbye and "Im gonna die,bye,be happy".
I think that is very rough for a person.He would live all his life with that pain,altough I imagine he would find another girl,sooner or later,but man,I think SArah was a total psycho,using Nelson like if they were gonna live happy and forever,when she knew from first moment she would break his heart.What an evil way to hurt someone, and she was so focused on act silly and crazy she didn't realize she was playing with feelings.
Anthony,the light and love of my life..

Lmfao!

lmfao. golden.

You know, I do a pretty similar thing with all of my girlfriends. I act like a total prick, and then when I've totally demoralized them, physically, mentally and psychologically, and made them feel like crap, I leave them. And just as I walk out the door, I leave them with the last words I'll ever say to them -
'I was just doing this for your benefit honey! Think about it. You've learned better understanding, compassion, forgiveness and obedience. And in the long run this will give you the capability to deal with rejection on a wider scale.
So I'm actually a pretty cool guy. See ya'
Same premise after all isn't it. Its a total cop-out, and just simply gives me a poor excuse to be a horrible specimen, but I can tell them that I'm just being a nice person and helping them grow as a human being. The fact that I was horrible before I came up with this excuse is irrelevent, rather than the other way around. Just like the fact that she was probably a slut before she decided to come up with hers. See how I flipped it?
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