First of all it's disrespectful not unrespectful. Second, how is grabbing a condom in front of someone considered being a brat? The maid was busy doing something and probably didn't see what she was grabbing. Or she knew but didn't care. She's not her mom so it didn't matter. If anyone was awful to the maid, it was the stepmother. She spoke to her like she was an idiot. Nicole was nice to the maid. I think you need to watch the movie again.