So Robin freaks out at a proposal,
Buts still wants Ted to forget about her freakout and continue dating!
cannot tolerate living with Ted and suggests he throw his stuff in storage unit or garage,
But shares an apartment with Ted for 3yrs!
and she rebounds almost immediately and lives with THAT guy
Gael was staying with her not living with her, she could kick him out anytime which she did

Because she did love him in season 2, them getting together at all in the end was more because of Robin than Ted.

So Robin freaks out at a proposal, cannot tolerate living with Ted and suggests he throw his stuff in storage unit or garage, and she rebounds almost immediately and lives with THAT guy. Wait, how was she "obviously" in love with Ted?

Consider the daffodil. And while you're doing that I'll be over here looking through your stuff.

You still didnt answer my question, do you think that she WANTED him to unpropose?
Yes I do.
Because I seriously think she just wanted him to be sure he wouldnt regret not having kids.
Nobody could ever be sure they wouldn't regret that and Robin knew that. The first thing he says when she tells him she can't have kidswe can adopt then, so it's clear to Robin he does want kids.

You still didnt answer my question, do you think that she WANTED him to unpropose?
Because I seriously think she just wanted him to be sure he wouldnt regret not having kids.

Because in that case it does not make sense that she was so emotional about it.
She is upset because that's the reaction she is going to get from alot of guys when they find out she doesn't want/can't have kids. She even says it at the end of the episode "who could get past that?"

Just to be clear, are you saying she WANTED him to unpropose?
Because in that case it does not make sense that she was so emotional about it.

Of course she did. She tells him point blank she didn't want kids either by adoption or surrogacy and that she couldn't be in a relationship knowing she 'owed' them that loss. Which is why Kevin reluctantly un-proposed

she did not force him to unpropose, she just wanted to make sure he was OK with never having kids

She never said that she never wants to get married. Robin freaks out because she knows Ted wants a family and that hasn't changed. She and Kevin obviously never spoke about what they want and she forced Kevin to un-propose because he wants kids as well. So she wouldn't have married Kevin.

Well to begin with, she always said she didn't want to get married at all. She was obviously more in love when she was with Ted than with Kevin but freaks out completely when she thinks he is proposing after more than a year of dating and then accepts Kevin's proposal after only a few weeks!?

Why would she?