‍️ Christina 1986-05-20

People get mad if their own parents are attractive and it's hard to win over the affection of another adult, like a female teacher.
½ S/N Asian (40%+ Chinese) ½ Norwegian/Danish-Irish Swiss (Amish/PA) German French Dutch? French+Dutch Celtic-Irish English-Irish? ..?

i say yes. if young children dont learn how to conduct themselves
properly
at an early age, and there's no other role-models in the household for the kids to takke
positive
guidance from, then you have a strong possibility of kids growing up without any self-worth, positive goals, or a sense of where they belong.
however, this all a moot point if parents are raving lunatics. key element is in setting a good, moral examples

‍️ Christina 1986-05-20

Yea, my mom helped me remember partly by looking at photos. Yea, that's when we lived in the county Fort Lauderdale, Southeastern Florida is in. We went to Key West twice when I was a baby and toddler but never Miami in my life. My dad's job had us going. I was 5, starting kindergarten after moving.
½ S/N Asian (40%+ Chinese) ½ Norwegian/Danish-Irish Swiss (Amish/PA) German French Dutch? French+Dutch Celtic-Irish English-Irish? ..?

You have a good memory! That sounds like a nice period in your life.

‍️ Christina 1986-05-20

She was my main person until my younger brother was born…. I was sorta to myself but also was with my dad more. My mom was a secretary sometime then, even when my younger brother was a baby somehow. I remember her boss's name, Peggy. She made a knit/crochet for my younger brother, a long clown.
½ S/N Asian (40%+ Chinese) ½ Norwegian/Danish-Irish Swiss (Amish/PA) German French Dutch? French+Dutch Celtic-Irish English-Irish? ..?

Didn't you have much time with your mother when you were little? Was she busy working?

‍️ Christina 1986-05-20

I was also cared for by my dad's mom and 2 younger sisters as a toddler and preschooler because I was White with an Asian mom and European-American dad. (It was because my parents were silly and I couldn't identify with another Caucasian female, otherwise. I wanted to be cool in a White way, too, and
be
White, as well as fit Asian if that's good in that way.)
That's nice.
½ S/N Asian (40%+ Chinese) ½ Norwegian/Danish-Irish Swiss (Amish/PA) German French Dutch? French+Dutch Celtic-Irish English-Irish? ..?

Yes. Kids learn by what they experience every day, so it's no good parents telling their children to do something, if they're doing the opposite themselves.