I also prefer
WH
but I came to it as a fan of the novels on which it's based. I was much less impressed with
TT
but I enjoyed it regardless.

Wolf Hall. By a mile.
ps - This guide helped get me through the first episode. They jump back and forth in time and it can be easy to get lost.
http://www.imdb.com/board/13556920/board/thread/257127331

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Yes, I think you would like Wolf Hall. Although it is exquisitely filmed, there is no "glamour" or attempt to appeal to youthful sexuality or stuff like that. The filmmakers took the story and period very seriously. That said, it is quite enjoyable (especially once you get past episode 1, which sets the story up and is a bit slow).
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Yes,
Wolf Hall
is more realistic. The events, the dialogue, the characters, the costumes, etc. are more historically accurate. Not perfect but much better in my opinion than
The Tudors
.
Wolf
is slower paced, there is more dialogue, and no one looks like a rock star.