Are you are beep idiot
A blind could see these 2 are head over heels in love

Come on. That's what she was doing. She was going in for a kiss, after all.

yeah, no. he confessed his feelings for her, said i get it you don't feel the same way. and she, again and again, allowed him to think that, when -in fact- she's been crushing hard since the coma/kiss. if not from before then. after the vulnerable comment, she should have acknowledged feeling the same way. not just going in for the kiss. if a man were to insult me, then talk about himself 'having it all' in a very obfuscasting/arrogant kind of way, i would not be all YEAH, LET'S DO THIS. tables are turned here and he's just a man? no poor communication skills/weakness/pitiful.

She was telling him.

kara is so weak for still not being able to tell Mon-El that she DOES return his feelings. pathetic.

I'm laughing at you right now, because I know you thought you were going to get your kiss tonight. The CW is masterminds at making people wait.
A person is never happy except at the price of some ignorance.
Anatole France (1844 - 1924)

It'll happen, unfortunately. The CW sucks so much for this. Kara and Mon-El is nothing innovative. It's just formulaic and clich. It's the safe option.
But props to Mxyzptlk for his impeccable timing.
Don't Jdg a Bok by Its Move