Are you from the U.S.? I don't think there are any states in the U.S. where you can refuse to "give" somebody a divorce.

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They're separated. Good for her.

You cheated on your wife, kicked her out of the house, and then wouldnt agree to a divorce? That doesnt sound like a real man. That sounds like an immature teenager's actions.

a real man would've kicked he woman out . i did it and wouldn't give her a divorce and it's been 3 years. she's ot getting anything from me.
it is different with kids but there's no kids.

She had already stated their marriage had been over for years. He moved in with the internet skank!

When she banged awesome dad, that seemed like a plot point to show that she gave up on the marriage or was as uncommitted to the marriage as her husband. Up to that point, she had the integrity and maturity, I think the writers meant to show that she is as superficial as her husband.
If it had been written different, she could have showed interest in awesome dad, but said something like, "sadly, I'm not quite available yet." Then she'd be viewed as a victim, rather than a participant in a failed marriage.

I guess it's just lazy writing.
No, its lazy watching.
The husband wasn't just kicked out of the house, he flew 2000 miles to be with the other woman. She had all moral rights to bone whomever she pleased at that point.

Jay Hernadez' character doesn't wonder where her husband is?
Jessie asked her about her husband in the bar, she told him that her husband was out of the picture. That's pretty much enough for any horny guy wanting to bang the hot chick.

So having a visual sexual and emotional relationship on the Internet with another woman for ten months isn't cheating? I'm sorry but Tit for tat. He had it coming.

[RossGeller]They were on a break![/RossGeller]
No tears please, it's a waste of good suffering.

The marriage was dead.
She figures if he's willing to try she will too.
It's not lazy writing it's one of the truest bits of the film