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<p dir="auto"><strong>boy19</strong> — <em>19 years ago(January 24, 2007 06:10 AM)</em></p>
<p dir="auto">Just wondering as he didn't do loads to stop it.</p>
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<p dir="auto">I don't think Allie gave Sam any bj's, or at least not often. And when she did, she probably sucked (no pun intended) at it. Like a poster before me said, you can tell by the smile on his face when he first start getting blown, that he was shocked not only that he was getting a bj, but that it was beyond amazing, something he wasn't use to feeling when Allie did it to him.</p>
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<p dir="auto">Without a doubt! He didn't do very much too get rid of her..<br />
Prostitute: What the <em>beep</em> are you doing?<br />
Johnny: I'm gonna kill a bunch of people.</p>
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<p dir="auto">So not a surprise that you are "boy".<br />
Goodbye.<br />
Perhaps the OP just wants to reach out for some sense of community.</p>
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<p dir="auto">But what if it's another guy?! <img src="https://filmglance.com/discuss/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f61b.png?v=8570fb93240" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--stuck_out_tongue" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":p" alt="😛" /></p>
]]></description><link>https://filmglance.com/discuss/post/425163</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://filmglance.com/discuss/post/425163</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[fgadmin]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2026 05:18:05 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Just wondering as he didn&#x27;t do loads to stop it. on Sun, 12 Apr 2026 05:18:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p dir="auto"><strong>thomas-begen-194-976045</strong> — <em>10 years ago(July 11, 2015 05:55 PM)</em></p>
<p dir="auto">I think you're over-analyzing this. Good head is good head; very few men are likely to push off a good BJ and tell a girl "Stop it" once he's already getting off.</p>
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<p dir="auto">Sam definitely enjoyed it.  In my opinion, Jennifer Jason Leigh is more sexually attractive than Bridget Fonda, and Hedy's character has an allure that Allie's doesn't.  The reason Sam came so quickly should be obvious  He was so turned on by the fact that Hedy went out of her way to go to his hotel room to do this to him, and also turned on by the fact that he was being unfaithful, but not completely by his own volition. Sam was clearly sexually attracted to<br />
Hedy, which is evident in the scenes of them together leading up to this one.  If Sam really didn't want to continue getting blown, he would have pushed her away MUCH more forcefully.  He enjoyed it very much, and knows he could have pushed her off had he wanted to, which is why he is so overcome with guilt afterwards when he's talking with Hedy as he lay in bed.</p>
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<p dir="auto">That's a prejudice and besides the point. However "slimy" Sam is, almost no man in his position would refuse the BJ and push Hedy off as he's about to get off himself. If the circumstances were reversed: If a man pretended to be another man and creeped up on a girl in bed to give her oral, not only would he probably be pushed off, but all of the misandrists and so-called feminists would cry "rape."<br />
I don't disagree that it's a form of rape. I'm merely pointing out your own hypocrisy. The main difference is 1. a guy can get off quick in comparison to a woman 2. many women are weird and have insecurities about receiving oral in the first place and who can give it to them. It's less a character flaw for a man not to refuse a BJ than it is the nature of most men.</p>
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<p dir="auto">"You mustn't be afraid to dream a little bigger, darling."</p>
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<p dir="auto">Of course Sam enjoyed it. He was obviously a slimy guy and a cheater, and he wouldnt ave refused anything free. At the very beginning of the film, we knew Allie broke up with him when he had sex with his ex. I believe after a few seconds he already knew that it was Hedy and not Allie. He might have thought the following: This woman wants it and I enjoy it. It is free and so what is the problem? He was obviously one of those guys who believed that there is such a thing as a free lunch. Unfortunately (but fortunately for Allie in my opinion), he also got a free shoe.</p>
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<p dir="auto">I agree with previous posters who say it was a physical response.  I think once he realised it wasn't Allie he wanted to stop, but she jumped back on him, and the end was a physiological response any bloke would have difficulty stopping.</p>
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<p dir="auto">Well, it sure<br />
looked<br />
like it.<br />
He came after, like, 30 seconds.<br />
"Alright, Olivia. What are you peeing your pants about?" - Madison,<br />
My Super Psycho Sweet 16</p>
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<p dir="auto">He didn't stop her because it would've been out of character for him. His character is a cheater. Period.</p>
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<p dir="auto">yeah i was going to say this ^^^^<br />
I couldn't hear my own footsteps. It was the walk of a dead man.</p>
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<p dir="auto">The point was not really whether or not he enjoyed it.<br />
He was raped by Hedy.  I have learned that some women,<br />
though going through the horrid experience of rape, do<br />
also climax.<br />
The reason he didn't try to stop it is the same reason<br />
so many guys have gotten their girlfriends pregnant even<br />
though they intended to stop and pull out just before the<br />
moment of orgasmthey simply were unable to do so because<br />
of the physical sensations they were experiencing.</p>
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<p dir="auto">Uh, do you mean that BJ during which Sam got slurped good by a hot naked chick and popped his wad in her mouth?<br />
Yes, I think he may have enjoyed it.<br />
Always remember to wear a helmet when caving, and carry three light sources</p>
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<p dir="auto">Well an oral sex scene is one thing, but a 15min bj would have been a bit much, it had to be kept brief. Plus, I'm sure she's got skills in that department, after all, she IS called "Hedy" <img src="https://filmglance.com/discuss/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f609.png?v=8570fb93240" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--wink" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=";)" alt="😉" /><br />
When life gives you lemons, you clone those lemons, and make superlemons.-Principal Scudworth</p>
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<p dir="auto">Men will be men, guys. If they're getting the old BJ, they wouldn't push a stray dog off it.<br />
Justice for the 96<br />
-15th April 1989<br />
YOU'LL NEVER WALK ALONE</p>
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<p dir="auto">That mouth must have worked like a super-charged vacuum cleaner! Unless he's quick with the trigger.</p>
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<p dir="auto">Yep, that's how seduction works against a person better mind and intentions (and judgement).<br />
What you see (and have seen) is what you get  and have!</p>
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<p dir="auto">Hahahahahahaha!!!<br />
"Is there some reason my coffee isn't here? Has she died or something?"-The Devil Wears Prada</p>
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