ugly and alive because you can still pull off the manly look while being ugly. You can develop your body and still be considered attractive. Women can do this but to a lesser extent.
Also as time goes on, you should care a lot less for validation.
Stop.

My poll is all encompassing. I didn't segregate because it didn't matter to me, to know who voted what here. I haven't voted because I really don't know or can't decide.
And American men are expected to be rich and it doesn't matter if you look like Harvey Weinstein. A good poll would be to ask men if they care, at all, that the woman they're with (wife, GF) couldn't care less about them and basically sleeps with them for cold hard cash.
So would you rather be rich and die in your 50s, never knowing if your wife ever loved you, or would you rather be poor but live long and have love in your life? That's a whole other poll.
Just vote and don't fret too much over it.
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You've got to specify if the hypothetical person is male or female.
Because if you're a dude, and you're ugly…. you can still get hot bodacious babes. Looks about men don't matter as long as you're not horribly ugly.
Women are expected by society to be in-shape and good-looking. It's not the same for men.
It's Beauty and the Beast. Not the Prince and the Manatee.

Being hot is the best. Who needs a personality when people will **** you without you needing any effort?
My password is password

Being average is the best. You don't get harassed, your looks don't sharply drop as you age, and you usually develop a personality or sense of humor or some other compensation.
My password is password

It's sad but kinda true.

I hope this is who I think it is!
Why, thank you!
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But you are beautiful, my love.
My password is password

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The first one. If you are ugly there is no point in living.
My password is password