TadowScott — 4 years ago(November 23, 2021 06:50 PM)

A boy I went to high school with, is now married with two children. He was a nerd who wore pocket protectors.
A girl I dated when she was 18, spoke very eloquently and was “aDORKable.” Therefore, every time we had sex, I felt guilty. Just looking at her, you’d have thought we were only going to play cards and nothing else, because she looks so innocent.
With that said, does it make sense if sex is more pleasurable with a nerd, as well as perceiving nerds as looking like virgins?
Again, I understand that sex is natural. However, because of how dirty it’s perceived (particularly pre-marital sex), I just can’t shake the fact that nerds do it too. Thus, how much I enjoy it with my girl who looks like she wouldn’t hurt a fly.
On top of that, her parents approved of me upon meeting them a few weeks after she and I met. I honestly felt like they couldn’t see through me, because I fondled their daughter on our first date while at the movies. She let me, but I felt guilty because she carried herself in such a nerdy manner. So it was surprising that her parents welcomed the fact that I was visiting their daughter overnight at her college campus a month after we met. They obviously knew we were having sex, but I felt guilty because I moved too fast with us (touching her breasts on 1st date). Yet, they keep saying what a gentleman I am to their daughter.