Claims he was sexually abused as a child
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rascal67 — 11 years ago(March 24, 2015 04:49 AM)
He claims he's not using the abuse as an 'excuse' for his behavior; but it can also appear convenient to bring it to light, since his arrest troubles. He wants a sympathy vote, when he just needs to grow\wake up. Boo Hoo! 'Poor, pitiful self-entitled me'.
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I_Love_Hutch — 10 years ago(August 28, 2015 01:48 PM)
Did rascal post above you, but after me awhile back? Now, that's an example of his abrupt personality-switch which I explained. Deleting his post now will only be obvious. (Even though I have him on ignore, imdb shows the poster's name who is on ignore.)
Nan Okay, if IMDB "shows the poster's name who is on ignore", then
WHY
did IY ask you if it was Rascal who posted??? If IMDB "shows the poster's name who is on ignore", then IY would KNOW who the poster is.
He IS reading these posts and he needs to save face, so he resorts to these absurdly transparent "questions"
It's a matter of "methinks thou doest protest too much". He's mentioned having us on ignore a few too many times lately. (Sorry, IY, you outed yourself again.) He just really, really needs to have others/us believe that he is NOT reading the posts, as a matter of, yes, saving face.
Also, how would IY know about Rascal's "abrupt personality switch" unless he HAD READ RASCAL'S POST??? It is embarassingly obvious. And it seems very strange, but IY doesn't seem to even be aware enough to know that by making these statements, he is exposing himself to others and what he is really doing.
This is mostly rhetorical on my part. I just don't know how you can't see through IY. And if it's the case of feeling sorry for him, then I guess I could understand that. -
rascal67 — 10 years ago(August 28, 2015 04:15 PM)
I consider IY a good friend, if others have a problem with him it's between them and all this bad mouthing is just annoying
Well he doesn't consider you one Nan and you will have to own your own annoyance. IY must then be annoying also, due his hypocrisy and bad mouthing.
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rascal67 — 10 years ago(August 28, 2015 11:30 PM)
What don't I know Nan? I see the bigger picture regarding IY and understand me when I say, he would find it very difficult to admit that you were his friend, or anyone else for that matter. He can't do relationships with others, as you or I would perceive them. It would mean having to give a part of himself and be generous and if he was, it would only be on his terms. There is a self-important and selfish agenda within his corrupt and arrogant state of being and I would be very very careful what you tell him.
I can't tell you what to do Nan and you have a good heart, are good-natured and a divine and generous being. Just open your mind a little more, rather than wear your heart on your sleeve all the time. It will make you an easy target otherwise. -
rascal67 — 10 years ago(August 29, 2015 12:26 AM)
Negativity isn't healthy for anyone. Thank you for your kind words
Oh Nan, you are so very very right and you deserve all the kindness and fabulus fortune and blessings that come your way.
IY is a negative being and I consider myself positive, that is the clash. We are operating on opposite ends of the spectrum. Being illuminated and non-judgmental, is learning to sit in the median, between both these states of being and not allowing things to affect you. Sometimes, the capricious nature of life is a challenge, and might not quite allow this and trips to either side might be necessary, even if leaning towards the negative. That is an unfortunate and sometimes necessary part of communication and while I don't 100% disagree with IY and he makes some salient points, he is not a nice person and he makes it so easy to admonish him. He has twisted and warped his own take, on a decent persons like myself and Hutch and taken us for granted. That is his own doing and while I am haunting these threads and if I feel he is WRONG, he is going to get told. That is just the nature of the beast on here. If he is thin skinned, that is his problem and he will have to deal with it. IY, can always wake up to himself at some stage.