Do you think it's wrong…?
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Spongeyone — 16 years ago(December 11, 2009 03:39 PM)
Just because a person finds a person of the same gender attractive does NOT mean they are homosexual, or bisexual.
Actually, that's the very definition of homosexuality or bisexuality. Thinking that someone is pretty or beautiful or handsome doesn't mean you're not straight, but "attra238ctive" does. -
rsbarros2 — 17 years ago(January 05, 2009 09:32 AM)
Yeah, so mayb5b4e you're a lesbian or bisexual. At the risk of oversimplifying things, who cares? Maybe you're not, but just keep your mind open and if you have feelings like this in the future, don't repress them. You'll pay for that dearly later in life.
You're awesome. Don't sweat it. And of course Sarah IS hot."Truth is for suckers, Johnny boy." -
emmiethesnowelf — 17 years ago(January 12, 2009 06:32 AM)
I've never been with a girl though! I'm just very open minded, I guess.
"God plumbed us the way he did for a reason."
Oh yeah? So we're basically not allowed to have feelings for the same sex at all EVER, are we?
And if we do, even for a second, then we'll be cast into the fiery pits off Hell, will we?
I don't think so -
sweiland75 — 17 years ago(January 19, 2009 10:12 PM)
It's only wrong, if you are not hot.
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emmiethesnowelf — 17 years ago(January 27, 2009 06:51 AM)
Thank you ALL for your support and lovely, kind words!
And Ronet, I do believe it was me that made it s238o!
Oh, and by the way, I write slashy stories about her and me, heeheeheeheeheeeeee!
They're in my notebook, and you can't see them! They're mine, all mine!!
steps away from being childish for a minute
But seriously, she's "Frickin'" hawt.
The reason I'm being all "Uuuuueeeaaaa5b4aahhhhhhh" at the moment is cause I watched Scrubs before
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The_Damned — 17 years ago(February 15, 2009 07:42 PM)
Im a 21 year old bloke and im as straight as they come but you can recognise hotness regardless of gender. Example, Johnny Depp, like i previously stated im as straight as they come but damn is that guy beautiful. In fact, you being brave enough to post that on here must show that you are comfortable with your sexuality.
Sarah is my absolute dreamgirl. Everthing about her is perfect. Scrubs is awesome but it could be the worst show on tv and i would still watch it just for Sarah. -
kdk7 — 16 years ago(May 29, 2009 09:35 PM)
@ the original poster
an 18 year old girl that makes monty python references?
emmiethesnowelf is probably a dude. an old dude. an old dude with a pervy crush on sarah chalke. and an old dude with a pervy crush on sarah chalke who gets off by pretending to be an 18 year old girl with a "bi-curious" crush on sarah chalke. -
emmiethesnowelf — 16 years ago(June 01, 2009 09:12 AM)
I love Monty Python!!!! I'm 19 now, NOT an old dude!!
I'll bet you'll say I'm old cause I love Blackadder and The Young Ones too!
Nooooooo, this is me. This is who I am.
A 19 year old girl who's straight, but has a bi-curious crush on Sarah Chalke. I don't need to prove anything to you, but I'm sure the other lovely people (who are being very supportive) will have my back on this one.
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xenatikkanen-1 — 16 years ago(August 24, 2009 04:27 PM)
I bought the Young Ones dvd set in late 07! I LOVE LOVE LOVE that show. I used to watch it on mtv (back when MTV only had one or two shows and ACTUALLY SHOWED VIDEOS MOST OF THE TIME! IMAGINE THAT! LOL) around 85-88 or something like that along with Python and also (cue the laughter now): The Monkees. hehe
Anyway, when I bought the set I watched all the eps in one night late till the next morning and I was cackling so much that I woke up my neighbors! Oops, sorry people!!! They were always loud anyway. hehehe -
metalboy_5150 — 16 years ago(August 21, 2009 07:13 PM)
Dude, I was going to write almost that exact same thing, like word for word, Johnny Depp included (yes, I'm late to the conversation, oh well). It's odd, because I said something about Johnny Depp man-crushes the other night (again, like you, straight as it gets), and was informed by not one, not two, not three, but four separate females that it is actually hot for a guy to admit a man-crush. I was, needless to say, a bit surprised. But hey! Maybe I have new date prospects now.
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xenatikkanen-1 — 16 years ago(July 14, 2009 04:43 PM)
Why would anyone think it's wrong that you're attracted to her or think she's pretty or that you "can't keep your eyes off her?"
First of all, no one should be telling you whether you are "right" or "wrong" for anything, unless you are being vicious, violent, or dangerous.
Just thinking someone is attractive is your business and only your business.
As for the later poster who said "it means you're a lesbian," that is a load of garbage too.
Maybe you are, maybe you're not, and that is for you to determine is your path of sexuality in life. I am not going to debate people as to whether it is a "choice" or not or anything like that; that's not really relevant or the point here. Your attraction to this actress may just be that. Just her or just something about her. Doesn't necessarily even mean it's sexual in nature, though it doesn't matter if it is or not. Again, your business and your life, right? If you are worried that this "makes" you this or that, forget that. It is up to you to own who you are and be proud of it. There is nothing wrong with it either way.
To immediately "categorize" someone strictly because they are "attracted" or think someone is magnetizing, has actually very little bearing on their sexual orientation or anything else for that matter.
You COULD be a lesbian. You COULD be bisexual. You COULD be straight but feel an attraction to a person who you find magnetizing qualities to when you see them.
There have been many "straight" people who have had emotional or even sexual crushes on people of the same gender, and that is actually fairly common and VERY normal, especially at your very tender young age. You are coming into your own as a young woman, and it will be some time before your true identity is concrete. You are at a time when you'll probably experiment with a lot of things involving a lot of different categories - one of them being your sexual and gender identity. You're going to be exposed to tons of new senses and experiences and people, places, and things. It is up to you to eventually say, hey, this feels right for me! This IS me.
Don't let ANYONE determine who you are, what you are, or how you SHOULD or SHOULDN'T feel, as I said. You just be happy with who you are, and who you are becoming and try to be a good person and everything else will fall into place.
Don't let people bully you, label you, or decide things for you. You go girl! No matter where, with whom, or how! Don't be scared of who you are or what you feel and don't let others make you feel bad about it and feel you need to hide it or conceal it. If you need to talk to someone about anything do so, anyone you can, so that you are able to live your life the way you want to. I am so tired of people trying to force their opinions or labels on people and making them feel bad about themselves or their feelings, especially teens or young adults.