OKWow.
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xenatikkanen-1 — 16 years ago(August 24, 2009 04:23 PM)
Thank you too! I appreciate that you took what I said to heart. I was trying to explain some things to a sibling the other day and we got into an argument because he didn't understand why a person would "hold on" or be so impacted by something later in life; I said, it's not that a person holds on to it necessarily, but if it is long term, hurtful things, even when you're younger, it stays with you in sometimes obscure ways. It may really affect who you are, and it shapes you, like it or not. You may be strong enough to overcome it, but so many kids are not able to because they have no one to help them.
I don't mean to make it maudlin or overdramatic, but I just want kids that I speak with, or adults, to know they aren't ALL ALONE and that they should be proud of who they are, and not be afraid to be who they are, and also that they shouldn't let someone else label them or define who they are based on their own preconceived notions or morals or norms. I hate seeing someone hurt for no reason, especially by some ignorant nobody who tries to exert power over someone who might be vulnerable or feeling insecure about something.
Battle on and take good care of yourself! Jen
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xenatikkanen-1 — 16 years ago(August 24, 2009 04:34 PM)
In a very condensed version of what I initially wrote: "Whatever floats your boat!" LOL If Sarah is it, hey, use "your alone time" anyway you feel necessary!
One last note on all of this: I have never understood why people have problems with these things, because we're talking about love or lust or happiness, as opposed to all the things in life that are bad. I just don't get why people are so intimidated or want to destroy something that is about LOVE. -
binary_codes_my_soul — 15 years ago(May 08, 2010 06:49 PM)
its easy to bring up difficult question to strangers, especially on the internet, because you don't have to face them or their judgement. If you don't like what they say, you ignore them. If you don't like what a friend says you might have an arguement, and that might cause you to lose a friend, and people don't want to risk that.
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crazykeyman — 15 years ago(May 09, 2010 09:15 AM)
Easy is not always best. A good friend will tell you the truth. Of course some people do not like the truth. If you are too afraid to talk to your friend then you either need better friends or you need to exercise some courage. Nursing fear only makes you weaker.
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crazykeyman — 15 years ago(May 14, 2010 03:40 PM)
Yes, I understand. I didn't ask why she asks complete strangers moral questions, which is a good question as well and I guess you answered. I asked if she always asks complete strangers moral questions which is normally answered with a yes or no. Of course how would you know that since you are not her.
I understand better that you are not trying to defend her as much as trying to understand her which is always a good trait to have. -
AlWaYsBOreDAgAiN — 15 years ago(June 05, 2010 12:51 AM)
I'm an 18 year old girl and I find her attractive. Granted, I am a lesbian but I also find guys attractive. For example, when I watch Scrubs, I can't not think about how hot Zach Braff is. And when I watch How I Met Your Mother, I want Neil Patrick Harris so bad!
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brushfyr — 14 years ago(March 30, 2012 02:54 PM)
Huh so is Sarah some type perfect girl for girlcrushs? I don't normally see a thread with so many girls talking about how hot a straight girl is. Usually it's guys talking about how they'd 'do' her.
Is it her attractivness plus her intelligence? She hasn't played dumb roles that I can think of, haven't seen everything but she plays 'normal' and 'smart' usually. -
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rob-2423 — 14 years ago(February 01, 2012 10:36 AM)
Not at all. Doesn't mean you are gay or anything, just that you appreciate an attractive person. I think there are handsome guys, and secure enough to admit it. I am definitely not gay, but I can appreciate that a person is attractive regardless the sex.
Pictures please.