What is up w/ all the cheating?!?!?
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AtheistRevolution — 14 years ago(June 13, 2011 12:59 AM)
Not really.Its just the guy doesn't have time to check up on their wives emails,texts like women do.My friend caught his wife banging the neighbor.
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mptnla — 15 years ago(November 17, 2010 12:03 PM)
Tony is soooo friggin ugly and Eva is sooo pretty. He should have thanked his lucky stars he landed such a beautiful woman and yet he cheats.
Most people seem to equate beautiful will being a joy to be around. They seem to ignore that being rich and beautiful often goes hand in hand with pettiness, spoiled, bratty, huge ego, entitlement, superiority complex, etc.
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LilMissSupernaturalBitch — 15 years ago(November 17, 2010 01:20 PM)
I read that as well but from what I understood from the People article online was that the woman he cheated on her with the first time is a different woman that's been texting him. This woman is also supposedly a wife/ex-wife(?) to one of his teammates.
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lovtwetyfsc08 — 15 years ago(November 17, 2010 02:21 PM)
Beauty is only skin deep but at the same time he chose to marry her. He knew how she was and still proposed. Since he did then be a decent human being and keep it in ur pants. If u want 2 cheat then don't pretend 2 be interested in staying faithful by marrying. I also read that he cheated on a website.
R.I.P. Yvette 7/25/1924-1/29/2002 I love you and miss you more and more every day!!
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venusebony — 15 years ago(November 17, 2010 07:39 PM)
I agree with the other poster any woman that gets involved with a high profile male athlete or celebrity should be prepared for him to cheat.
The idea of monogamy is outdated, stupid, and just not possible. The concept of marriage is outdated I don't know why they got married.
It is stupid of Eva Longoria to expect a 27 year old man that is an NBA superstar to ONLY have sex with her. Beauty is skin deep and I am guessing Tony got tired of Eva. Sure, Eva is pretty but then again they are pretty women that chase famous male athletes. People say Tony is ugly but do you think those skanks care? They just want to screw an NBA star and tell all their friends.
I think Eva is in love with the idea of being in love. Girlfriend jumped from one marriage right into the second one.
Thank goodness Tony and Eva DON't HAVE CHILDREN this means they can make a clean break and move on with their lives. -
Jane_Claire — 15 years ago(November 17, 2010 03:36 PM)
I remember at the beginning of last year when me and my friend were bored after school listening to the radio. She came up on the radio and they were talking about John and Kate Plus 8 and she said 'We would really like a nice big family, but not 8!'. I thought that was so funny, and I totally saw her married happily for the rest of her life, she just seemed to me to be that kind of a person.
I hope she gets over it soon. -
dl4060 — 15 years ago(November 18, 2010 08:38 AM)
"Tony is soooo friggin ugly and Eva is sooo pretty. He should have thanked his lucky stars he landed such a beautiful woman and yet he cheats. Why can't people keep their legs closed dammit or just not commit 2 a monogamous relationship?!?!? "
I will try to explain this to you, in general terms. My guess is that you are a woman, so that will likely make it more difficult, as these are glimpses into the male mind.
Understand that I am not justifying cheating, only explaining it.
Male professional athletes/actors get bombarded with women. They live a life normal men can only dream of. This does not mean that they don't love the women they are with, it just means they want sex outside the relationship. The sex means nothing, it is not emotional, it is just physical. There is nothing wrong with the wife, it is just a male urge.
Normal men can't do what pro athletes/actors can, those guys get women thrown at them constantly, and for some it is hard to turn that down.
I am not justifying the behavior. There are famous men who stay faithful. I am just trying to give you an explanation.
In Tony Parker's case, I don't know the details. It may be an affair, and not a one-nighter.
What I have spoken of is very difficult for some women to understand, but look around. Do you notice how many celebrity men cheat on there beautiful, famous wives with women that are less attractive? Plenty of them.
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reel-star — 15 years ago(November 18, 2010 08:56 AM)
You're right! I'm not saying that as a man. I'm saying it as a human being who understands that men and women think on different levels and act accordingly. My guess? It was only a matter of time before the marriage broke down. If Parker wouldn't have cheated on Longoria, she would have done it sooner or later. With all the attention she's getting from men, and with the kind of relationship they were having considering their careers, she would have had an affair.
Womens' first reaction to the story is: this man is a real bastardoh, poor Eva girl, he doesn't desere youblah, blah, blah.
Yesyou need to have a d..k to understand that. It's so easy for women to function on a victim mentality mode, because that's how they see themselves.
Men are not dogs. Men are men. But if they were dogs, women would be bitches. Now, it's up to you to decide if that word is to be taken litterally or with its derogatory sense."I just want to be inspired."
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JacNicholson — 15 years ago(November 18, 2010 09:03 AM)
Right on. Alot of beautiful women can get cheated on because they marry a guy who can get any girl he wants. So the marriage thing is seen as to be normal instead of a symbol of true love. Alot of people get married to feel normal or to join the club of other married people. That's why alot girls want to get married so young. Alot of girls don't know that most guys just want to have sex. Maybe he married you because he knows you're the hottest girl he'll ever get. And that's just wrong. That's why "normal" people cheat too-not just celebs or athletes. When the opportunity arises, you don't know what choice he'll make. Eva married an athlete, most athletes marry a model or hook up with alot of them. I guess maybe Eva was looked at as a model with some personality? IDK. I feel sorry for her. She seems like a down-to-earth woman who doesn't look like she'd ever be in this mess.
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lovtwetyfsc08 — 15 years ago(November 18, 2010 09:16 AM)
Yes I am a woman and no I'm not looking at it from a victim's mentality. I'm looking at the situation and at the person who cheated. If Eva had been the 1 who cheated then I would say shes a douche 4 doing so. There r plenty of guys who don't let their d*ck lead them. It is possible 2 stay faithfuland I mean 4 both women and men. If ur not going 2 then don't make any commitments and/or promises or false hopes. There r plenty of people out there that r willing 2 beep whoever, whenever, in whatever way, and 4 however many times.
R.I.P. Yvette 7/25/1924-1/29/2002 I love you and miss you more and more every day!! -
JacNicholson — 15 years ago(November 18, 2010 09:44 AM)
I think usually when a guy cheats, he was the one dominating the relationship, either making more money or fully supporting the wife. When a girl cheats, it's usually some diva like girl who thinks their husband is a biatch. When it's none of those things and they still cheat, it's like a in-the-moment kind of thing and a "I don't know what I was thinking". The most faithful relationships are the ones that mock the people in a relationship, if that makes sense, and enjoys simple things and not expecting so much from their partner. It might not be as passionate as a 3 month fling giving everything they've got, but it lasts. That's why I see the simplest people having the longest relationships and being happy. Sometimes that's what's hardest to find.
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tiptaptoe — 15 years ago(November 18, 2010 05:21 PM)
I don't knowI think he was just too young. He's 28 and she says they've been together for seven years? Take away that number carry the four take away two.My God he was twenty-freaking-one when they met. He's a kid. I think he loved her. I think he'll regret it but he's just too immature to "get it" when it comes to commitment.
I think he has a better idea today. I think it's just sad. -
venusebony — 15 years ago(November 19, 2010 04:39 AM)
I agr5b4ee why didn't Eva meet someone her own age? Why did Eva chase such a young man? I am sorry but I don't feel sorry for Eva Longoria she comes across as VERY STUCK UP. The woman wants alimony even though she earns $12 million dollars a year from her TV show and endorsements. She doesn't deserve anything from Tony because they are both wealthy. I hope they had a pre nup. I just don't feel sorry for Eva I am actually glad Tony woke up and left that bitch.
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harveythepooka — 9 years ago(May 16, 2016 04:22 AM)
Male professional athletes/actors get bombarded with women. They live a life normal men can only dream of. This does not mean that they don't love the women they are with, it just means they want sex outside the relationship. The sex means nothing, it is not emotional, it is just physical. There is nothing wrong with the wife, it is just a male urge.
I don't really buy this. There are tons of women who cheat, who have emotionless sex just because the guy is super hot.
IMO it all boils down to a combination of entitlement and the culture these guys are living. It's the same with rock stars, when they are on the road, everyone is sleeping around so even if you are a "good guy" you see everyone doing it and eventually it just rubs off on you. Plus, you get these guys who are told they are so special, so wonderful, are living a charmed life and they don't think normal rules apply to them.
Yes, I agree that in marriage the vow of fidelity is more pointed towards the men, but not all guys cheat. Also, I
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the idea and sex can be simultaneously meaningful and meaningless to the same person at the same time. Sex doesn't change because of who you're having it with. If sex is meaningless with a prostitute, then it's meaningless with your wife. The value of the sex doesn't change in any way that actually counts. The only thing that changes in perception, it's all the baggage that goes along with the sex. Does this prostitute care that I am going to be sleeping with someone else tomorrow? Obviously not. But the sex is just physical with your wife, if it's just physical with someone else.
Also, I don't think people cheat on people they are "in love" with simply because you don't want to do anything to hurt that perso5b4n. Maybe after a few years and the love is like a tired old boot, instead of a fancy new stiletto heel, you might cheat, but not in the beginning these two where practically newlyweds. But whether you love your spouse or not, you can't respect them and also cheat. If you guys are practically living like roommates then just sit down and say we are having an open marriage, we're just together for the kids and the tax benefits and that's fine, but I don't get intentionally hurting someone you claim to love.
What separates humans from the rest of the animal kingdom is we hold ourselves to a higher standard. A dog can spend 10 minutes licking his balls and no one thinks anything of it, but if a guy is constantly adjusting himself it's beyond the pale. It's the same thing, sex is an animal urge and we keep it in check because we are civilized people. We don't start masturbating on the subway because we're bored, so why is it cheating ever excused? What is the most painful is the lying and being made to feel like a fool for trusting someone you should love and trust implicitly, so if you want to have sex with other people talk about it, maybe she feels the same way. But be prepared to end up single. -
ChocolateFrankenstein — 15 years ago(November 19, 2010 05:39 PM)
Chris Rock once said men are only as faithful as their options. Perhaps the same is true with Tony, she simply wasn't enough for him.
"Beauty is the means which we use to measure our own vanity"