DARVO describes Fugazi perfectly
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Archived from the IMDb Discussion Forums — The Soapbox
/.ㅤ — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 09:03 PM)
DARVO is an acronym for "Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender". It describes a tactic used by some people to deflect blame and responsibility for wrongdoing when they are held accountable.
My password is password. -
𝙵𝚞𝚐𝚊𝚣𝚒. — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 09:10 PM)
This seems more like what you try to do with me.
Also, you should look up scapegoating and imperfect victimhood.
The fact is, if I wasn't here or Monicah wasn't here, someone else would take our place. This community was toxic when neither of us were around. -
𝙵𝚞𝚐𝚊𝚣𝚒. — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 09:14 PM)
Not really. You twist things to fit. I have never instigated anything with anyone here.
You know who also denies? People who are innocent.
I guess all those people in court who plead not guilty are actually guilty because they denoed wrongdoing. -
magnificent butthole — 1 year ago(February 18, 2025 07:54 AM)
I guess all those people in court who plead not guilty are actually guilty because they denoed wrongdoing
Yes but doesn't a court also take into account someone history, character and what kind of contribution they make to the society when judging someone? -
𝙵𝚞𝚐𝚊𝚣𝚒. — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 09:23 PM)
People talk. You can look at old conversations here too. Everyone is always fighting each other and making fun of others.
Even Nimda has drama. The whole Gameboy's biard drama happened when I wasn't here. Nimda banned him after a lot of people here briefly went there to escape the trolls, I guess. Then they treated it like a lame ass exclusive club for a while, which caused more drama. -
𝙵𝚞𝚐𝚊𝚣𝚒. — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 09:43 PM)
Because of aforementioned scapegoating. It was a honeymoon phase.
You still eventually started turning on each other and it was the case before I came back in 2022.
Twiz and I are still cool. Maybe my handling wasn't the best, but it was out of concern for her. Nimda is a controlling piece of ****, and I believe in outing abusive people. Of course none of you cared because you're terrible people.
If it was me making the threats Nimda did, I'd never hear the end of it. Classic scapegoating. -
𝙵𝚞𝚐𝚊𝚣𝚒. — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 09:54 PM)
Just generally. The drama or toxicity of the site. You don't all get along when there's not a common enemy, at least not in the end.
There's even been drama in the knitting circle. Dazed and Lilith got salty with each other after some political posts. Everyone but Cornelly in that groupnhated Orson for a while when he went after Loki when the whole mouse thing was happening.
I mean, you people try to justify going after family members, or in my case, my ex who isn't even in my life, so you can't make the enabling excuse. An outsider would look at this and think you people are ****ed up lol. You've deluded yourselves because this is an echo chamber. -
/.ㅤ — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 10:01 PM)
So why do you keep coming back? To find some meaningful suffering in a virtual space? Have you found the past decade on these movie boards fulfilling? Has your real life been positively affected by your spending so much time and energy here? How about those who support you?
My password is password.