DARVO describes Fugazi perfectly
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𝙵𝚞𝚐𝚊𝚣𝚒. — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 09:23 PM)
People talk. You can look at old conversations here too. Everyone is always fighting each other and making fun of others.
Even Nimda has drama. The whole Gameboy's biard drama happened when I wasn't here. Nimda banned him after a lot of people here briefly went there to escape the trolls, I guess. Then they treated it like a lame ass exclusive club for a while, which caused more drama. -
𝙵𝚞𝚐𝚊𝚣𝚒. — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 09:43 PM)
Because of aforementioned scapegoating. It was a honeymoon phase.
You still eventually started turning on each other and it was the case before I came back in 2022.
Twiz and I are still cool. Maybe my handling wasn't the best, but it was out of concern for her. Nimda is a controlling piece of ****, and I believe in outing abusive people. Of course none of you cared because you're terrible people.
If it was me making the threats Nimda did, I'd never hear the end of it. Classic scapegoating. -
𝙵𝚞𝚐𝚊𝚣𝚒. — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 09:54 PM)
Just generally. The drama or toxicity of the site. You don't all get along when there's not a common enemy, at least not in the end.
There's even been drama in the knitting circle. Dazed and Lilith got salty with each other after some political posts. Everyone but Cornelly in that groupnhated Orson for a while when he went after Loki when the whole mouse thing was happening.
I mean, you people try to justify going after family members, or in my case, my ex who isn't even in my life, so you can't make the enabling excuse. An outsider would look at this and think you people are ****ed up lol. You've deluded yourselves because this is an echo chamber. -
/.ㅤ — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 10:01 PM)
So why do you keep coming back? To find some meaningful suffering in a virtual space? Have you found the past decade on these movie boards fulfilling? Has your real life been positively affected by your spending so much time and energy here? How about those who support you?
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𝙵𝚞𝚐𝚊𝚣𝚒. — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 10:05 PM)
I'm not suffering. I enjoy annoying you ****s and I enjoy letting out some of my unfocused ADHD energy.
When I do start to get too affected by it, I take a break.
You say that as is if I only post here. I'm part of other online communities. I read. I draw. I watch stuff. I occasionally go out with friends or family but I'm an introvert who prefers being mostly at home.
Why do you keep coming here and keep having the same arguments with me? -
/.ㅤ — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 09:20 PM)
The fact is, if I wasn't here or Monicah wasn't here, someone else would take our place. This community was toxic when neither of us were around.
It was Ben, PE, and Itty before you. The nice people don't get piled onto. Only the psychotic assholes who deserve it.
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𝙵𝚞𝚐𝚊𝚣𝚒. — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 09:27 PM)
Sounds like DARVO to me.
A lot of you are doing it to Kiwi now. Saying she sounds retarded and **** like that. Is Kiwi like Ben and PE? This is just dishonest. Just what I expect.
I have only batted back what you throw my way. When I first came back, I didn't come in starting ****. I just talked about my interests, and got called homophobic slurs. Then **** snowballed. That's not on me. -
/.ㅤ — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 09:51 PM)
That's for her to decide. Maybe you should just mind your own business, sofa knight and stop trying to conflate your retardedness with other posters, attempting to drag them down to your level just so think you'll have something in common with a non-retard.
My password is password. -
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𝙵𝚞𝚐𝚊𝚣𝚒. — 1 year ago(February 17, 2025 10:32 PM)
My sister's fine with me and appreciates what I do for her and the house. None of the people you use to try to make me seem terrible are fine with me. Monicah and I are currently on good terms. My sister and I are always on good terms.