What happened to her?
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TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(May 04, 2021 01:43 AM)
I doesn't matter to me what is in their mind, but rather what they try to make me do.
People seem to miss this an awful lot.
If someone introduces me to their cat and I see it's a dog, I will not call it a cat.
If they insist I do, then they're trying to force me to their will and I will not cooperate.
I have psych clients like that and I don't get confrontational, but I will call them you, they, them, that person. I do not play games with crazy people or adopt craziness to sooth a crazy person.
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TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(May 04, 2021 02:43 PM)
That's an awesome idea.
When I worked in prison many of the inmates weren't in there under their real names. Also, many had elaborate "street" nicknames.
One very funny inmate told me that if another inmate tried to make him use a nickname he would say his nickname was "Sugar Dick".
So, if Fred wants you to call him "L 24" then you can say "Okay Fred, you can call me Sugar Dick!" and that's a way to tell Fred, he is Fred, not L 24.
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P.Error — 4 years ago(May 04, 2021 03:06 AM)
I can understand why men want to be women because men are perverted, don't get laid, and have weird fetishes.
But when a woman, especially a moderately attractive one, wishes to **** her body up to become a man, it's astonishing to me: I mean, you look pretty in a dress, why **** that up? You already have the smooth pretty rosy moisturised skin, why **** that up? You have the cut bubbly butt cheeks with a hint of peachfuzz, why **** that up?
It's more disturbing when women turn into men, because, unlike male-to-female transgender, women basically **** up their skin.
Male-to-female trans at least make their skin better, by facial fetishising and hair removal, skin tightening, and what not.
But woman-to-men - they already start out with pretty skin, and to become a man, they make their skin worse - basically stop using makeup and stop caring about facial wrinkles, so in time, they have that course leathery man skin, that not even
men
want.
Never lose your desire.