I put it down like this.
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de-juan — 15 years ago(May 24, 2010 01:02 AM)
You have never even SEEN me. Therefore, how do you know what I look like? However, I am not about to commence an argument with anyone on this board because everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
Why would I want to argue with you? I prefer not to argue with girls, especially if they're hot.
There are ways to settle this though.
You just another part of me - RIP MJ -
de-juan — 15 years ago(May 24, 2010 02:26 AM)
Well, what you say is still pretty interesting. So since this is a discussion board, where we share opinions Id like to know how you come about this fact that YOU are one of the hottest black girls.
I have a fondness for them.
You just another part of me - RIP MJ -
de-juan — 15 years ago(May 24, 2010 03:13 AM)
Well, you do have some strong reasons for stating your case.
Let me start my response by saying that EVERYONE is beautiful, the key being they are beautiful in their uniqueness.
I have natural beauty. I don't need a ton of makeup or extensions to make myself noticeable to the opposite sex
I have an amazing figure and a full set of thick, long hair that I was BORN with.
True, a really true indicator of beauty. However, looking at my opening paragraph Id that the same will apply to anyone who is without makeup or who wakes up in the morning, because we are all unique. I think we all make the mistake of believing the criterion Hollywood follow as THE mark of beauty. So all you doing here is reminding us of where we should be looking when answering this question ourselves.
Also I see you speak of having long hair that you were born with. Dont think it matters really, because there are (and trust me on this one) women who are more beautiful than you are without the long thick hair you have.
Most importantly, I possess a tremendous amount of inner beauty. I both compassionate and intelligent.
Ok sweety. The fact that you say this yourself is a major turn off to me and Im sure quite a few and this all started when you named YOURSELF as one of the most beautiful. Unattractive qualities include vanity, being pompous, aware of ones 7ecachievements and so forth. Since you are an intelligent woman, Im sure you would agree with me on this, in that when you come across someone who is aware and openly speaks about their beauty.. they kind of drop in your book.
So I guess you know the answer to your quote below
I hope I'm not coming off as ostentatious or anything,
Tell me about yourself, though. What work do you do? What do you do for fun? Favourite songs? Movies? TV shows?
You just another part of me - RIP MJ -
de-juan — 15 years ago(May 24, 2010 04:02 AM)
When I made that list, I did so with the intention of expressing myself in a convincing yet modest manner. I apologize if it came off in a negative way. What don't understand is why is such a turn off for ANY women to consider herself as one of the most beautiful women? I don't condone women being conceited or anything like that; however, I wouldn't scrutinize a woman if she did, in fact, consider herself as one of the most attractive women.
There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. It may come across as supreme confidence to you (which is attractive by the way) but in an area where its almost impossible to judge yourself you can be sure that your confidence will be mistaken for arrogance, being conceited, etc.
I suspect you probably a popular girl, get quite a bit of attention from guys relative to the women around you. Perhaps even had guys fight over you?
What I also don't know is why you're interested in what I like if we have differing viewpoints?
Ah, good question.
My reasoning is simple. Im merely finding out more about you, from having a conversation with you as well as finding out your interests Im able to paint a better picture of who you are.- You did so without hesitation, which shows you are approachable, if I came up to you and started chatting you would be ok with it.. perhaps we could even have a good convo. All this and we started in disagreement.
- Looked at your interests, quite interesting that they are so mixed. I assume that you are black, yet listen, watch and do traditionally "white" things and not limited to one specific genre. Indicates to me that you are able to mix easily and pretty well at that.
Just two observations from my side, please dont take it as some kind of analysis on who you are. I could be way off. What this tells me is that Id be attractive to you (the best who knows?)
With regards to your interests. Im also guessing you not too young either.. probably mid twenties onwards
Oh yeah, and to be fair..
Music: Coldplay, John Mayer, Nas, BlackStarr, Alicia Keys, Santana, Bruno Mars, B.O.B, Lupe Fiasco, Michael Jackson
TV: LOST, Dexter, Fringe, Smallville, X-Files, The O.C.
Work: SAP Consultant
Fun: Sport (watching and playing), gym, socialising, writing rhymes
You just another part of me - RIP MJ
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de-juan — 15 years ago(May 24, 2010 04:41 AM)
As far as age goes, I'm actually only twenty-one years old
This is a surprise, would never have guessed.
I'm glad that I was able to paint a better picture of myself for you
You have, and now I could perhaps comment on your initial statement again, more accurately this time round.
Hope I haven't kept you up all night!
Ive kept you up actually, where I am its the middle of the day. You actually kept me busy this quiet morning - so I guess thank you
P.S.
I LOVING some B.o.B. and Bruno Mars right about now
I guess a fitting theme to our discussion.
You just another part of me - RIP MJ