Poll: Are you attractive?
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MissMargoChanning — 4 years ago(April 29, 2021 05:40 PM)
I don't lie. I don't sugar coat things.
You asked a question….
Are you attractive?
You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbelts….
It's Going To Be A Bumpy Night! -
️ Christina 1986-05-20 
— 4 years ago(April 29, 2021 05:46 PM)I meant in other situations not to do with you. I'm having some issues feeling attractive to other people, and for some reason they are testing me to begin with when it doesn't really matter.
½ S/N Asian (40%+ Chinese) ½ Norwegian/Danish-Irish Swiss (Amish/PA) German French Dutch? French+Dutch Celtic-Irish English-Irish?
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MissMargoChanning — 4 years ago(April 29, 2021 06:03 PM)
I see.
I misunderstood. I hope that things work out.
By the way, I saw the picture you posted of your short hair. With the hot weather, it must be nice and cool. I have cut my hair short. I love it! Mine is only a little longer than yours. It's nice to just run my fingers through it in the morning, and it looks good all day.
I guess that the best answer to your question is, as long as you are happy with the way you look, what others think, really isn't important. Be happy, and if you aren't, think about what you could do to improve things.
You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbelts….
It's Going To Be A Bumpy Night! -
️ Christina 1986-05-20 — 4 years ago(April 29, 2021 06:07 PM)
Thanks!
Yea, it is hot where I am and it's nice. I know the air conditioner ("the AC") isn't working now, but I have a fan in my room.
Ha ha! You must have nice hair. Mine sorta looked damage. With 3 hair masks a day, I hope it grows in nicer.
Yea, I can't wait to see my hair not so bald looking. Using hair masks is a source of excitement for me, to see it grow in smooth and not as dark as before.
Yea, I need to exercise, but my room is getting crowded with my suitcases to pack stuff. So, I may use the living room, which I'm sharing with my younger brother. I need to rest, too, was sleeping a lot and had a hard time going back to sleep.
½ S/N Asian (40%+ Chinese) ½ Norwegian/Danish-Irish Swiss (Amish/PA) German French Dutch? French+Dutch Celtic-Irish English-Irish?..? -
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️ Christina 1986-05-20 — 4 years ago(April 29, 2021 05:51 PM)
People like me, but I feel traumatized by my aunt and cousin supposedly being more attractive … and it's affecting how people see me as attractive or not, somehow. It's like once people know my aunt and cousin are attractive, they don't like me anymore, whereas before they did. Some still would.
½ S/N Asian (40%+ Chinese) ½ Norwegian/Danish-Irish Swiss (Amish/PA) German French Dutch? French+Dutch Celtic-Irish English-Irish?..? -
MissMargoChanning — 4 years ago(April 29, 2021 06:13 PM)
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I see. I have the feeling that you are the one who thinks people see your aunt and your cousin being more attractive than you because you don't think you measure up.
I'll let you in on a little secret…
Everyone feels that way about certain people in their lives.
Look at it this way… They may be pretty, but are they as smart as you? Are they as talented at music?
Everyone has something special about them. We are all different and special in our own way.
You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbelts….
It's Going To Be A Bumpy Night! -
️ Christina 1986-05-20 — 4 years ago(April 29, 2021 06:22 PM)
Well, on vacation, I'd sit there and do nothing for years and years, while my aunt and cousin go wild. It was actually very annoying, and I felt tested if I used them for a good time, in some way…
I even think they aren't my type in how they look.
½ S/N Asian (40%+ Chinese) ½ Norwegian/Danish-Irish Swiss (Amish/PA) German French Dutch? French+Dutch Celtic-Irish English-Irish?..? -
MissMargoChanning — 4 years ago(April 29, 2021 08:39 PM)
We are all different in the way we all look. Stop acting as if you are special/different! We are all different! You are family.
You did not choose them. They didn't choose you.
On the other hand, they may be all you have in this world. They are there to help you.
You can choose your friends.
Hopefully, you will meet nice people, and make good friends when you move into your new group home.
I wish you the best. I have the feeling that your aunt feels the same way.
Take care.
You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbelts….
It's Going To Be A Bumpy Night! -
️ Christina 1986-05-20 — 4 years ago(April 29, 2021 05:33 PM)
I wish more people would come to terms with this term they placed on me.
½ S/N Asian (40%+ Chinese) ½ Norwegian/Danish-Irish Swiss (Amish/PA) German French Dutch? French+Dutch Celtic-Irish English-Irish?..?
