It's interesting, my first reaction in that scene when Flap feels guilty about cheating on Emma, was something like "OK,
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jon5000_66 — 9 years ago(May 20, 2016 04:37 PM)
She doesn't give a sh*t, she's dying. I thought it was one of those moments that rings so "true" in the movie, which make it so special - not flattering to the character, but believable and real-seeming, and really funny. I think it's so funny, because for just a second she thinks about telling him, then says "you're right, let's not do this". She's not lying, she's just right - let's not do this.
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lisa-xo — 11 years ago(March 14, 2015 06:09 AM)
Flap does make reference to it at one point, when they're arguing about him cheating. He said something like "don't think I don't know what you do on your afternoon
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ecjones1951 — 10 years ago(October 29, 2015 04:57 PM)
I can't agree that Flap ever put his career first. Chasing women took priority over everything most especially his family. The cruelest thing he does is uproot Emma and the children to move to Nebraska not because there is any more money in it but because Janice is there. "Head of the department!," he tells Emma but that's incidental. Knowing this as she does, I get why Emma avoids confessing her sins.
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MuchToBeGratefulFor — 10 years ago(December 01, 2015 09:00 AM)
I have to disagree that "chasing women" was Flap's priority. The only woman we know he cheated with was Janice, and that was serious enough that he moved with his family to stay close to her. He wasn't just jumping into the sack with anyone wearing a skirt as far as what the movie showed us. He fell in love with another woman when things at home were not good. Not defending his behavior, but it's a far cry from "chasing women".
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rascal67 — 9 years ago(June 03, 2016 09:37 PM)
Flap cheats, Emma cheats. Makes them both jerks by my book and then when she finds out, she leaves him. Not much of a hypocrite huh! Flap, while being an infidel, still had to balance a career with his womanizing, because he still had a family to support. A family that Emma wanted too.
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MuchToBeGratefulFor — 9 years ago(June 04, 2016 04:55 AM)
What are you talking about? Emma never left Flap. They were still together when she died. That's the topic of this thread, that in their last scene together which was not long before she died, he admits cheating and she doesn't.
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rascal67 — 9 years ago(June 04, 2016 05:24 AM)
If I recall, Emma did leave Flap and went to Auroras. There is also a scene with Flap and Emma having a phone conversation by Nancy's poolside side and doesn't Flap want her to come back? He is cooking a barbecue for the boys. It's been a while since viewed.
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MuchToBeGratefulFor — 9 years ago(June 05, 2016 08:17 AM)
Emma left him to visit her mother with the kids. The phone scene by the pool at Patsy's is when Flap calls to tell her that they are moving in a week to Nebraska, so she had to cut her trip short to get ready for a move she didn't want and hadn't even been consulted about. She had not left him and didn't then, as angry as she was about both the affair and getting moved on such short notice.
Also, the conversation between Emma and Flap, we only saw Emma's side. The phone conversation when Flap is cooking BBQ for the kids, is a different conversation, with Aurora, Emma's mother. I believe that is when Patsy took Emma to NYC when she had cancer.
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rascal67 — 9 years ago(June 05, 2016 03:46 PM)
Cheers! It must have been Emma's anger that I recollected and was thinking of the scene when Emma visited Aurora with her kids alone and correlated that with her leaving Flap because she was annoyed with him. I think this is the scene when Teddy goes running up to Aurora yelling "grandma", "grandma". I love the look on MacLaine's face.
Exorcist: Christ's power compels you. Cast out, unclean spirit.
Destinata: