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    gfe-6 — 10 years ago(July 22, 2015 06:25 AM)

    A kid buying stuff for the home. Back in the old days decades before this, it was considered normal. Family members had chores and if the kid was willing to go to the store why not.

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      HiMyNameIsPenny — 10 years ago(August 29, 2015 10:51 AM)

      Yes, this ^^^^. In the '80s, I used to walk to the store for my mom all the time. Started at age 8.

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        ipacac22 — 10 years ago(July 27, 2015 06:13 PM)

        I bet she sabotaged his bags too. She seemed upset he wouldn't answer all her questions.

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          HiMyNameIsPenny — 10 years ago(August 29, 2015 10:52 AM)

          That's a funny idea

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            Torni3945 — 10 years ago(November 29, 2015 08:13 AM)

            Yeah she is passive aggressive.

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              nutsberryfarm — 10 years ago(November 29, 2015 01:32 PM)

              and bored.
              Season's greetings!

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                Carlos_Nikos — 10 years ago(November 30, 2015 06:07 AM)

                I reckon the most plausible explanation is that she moonlights as a 'groomer' for a massive child smuggling/ pedophile ring in Illinois. I think she saw an opportunity to get paid for passing on some vital information and Kevin was her target.

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                  EightiesKid — 9 years ago(April 04, 2016 01:31 PM)

                  Coming from a different angle, I wonder if Kevin buying a cartful of stuff could've been what set off her suspicion more than him being alone? Like if he was just getting 1 or 2 things, I'm sure she wouldn't have batted an eye at him saying "My mom's in the car."
                  It was a supermarket in an upscale neighborhood in 1989/1990, so it probably wasn't as unusual at the time. I'm Kevin's age, and I didn't regularly start grocery shopping on my own until like 1995 at 12-13, but if I had five years earlier just using real world logic, I'm sure somebody would've definitely said something.

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                    NobodymournstheWicked — 9 years ago(April 05, 2016 06:35 PM)

                    If you were working as a cashier in a grocery store, and you saw a kid in line all by himself with no parent or family member without him or her, wouldn't you get suspicious too?

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                      !!!deleted!!! (14209231) — 9 years ago(September 26, 2016 01:48 AM)

                      Oh for goodness sake! It's only a movie. Why do people take these kinda things so seriously all the time?! Enough analyzing and more enjoying. This film is a great holiday film, and so is the second one. ?

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                        stevenackerman69 — 9 years ago(October 01, 2016 07:59 PM)

                        Just because Kevin gave an answer to it doesn't mean it was the truth. It wasn't, right? I think I'd be a little suspicious myself seeing an 8 year old kid buying stuff at the supermarket himself. Kids don't do that.

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                          roman2886 — 9 years ago(December 02, 2016 03:21 PM)

                          she seemed like the type who was passive aggressive i wouldn't have trusted that women someone like that could be a bully and be dangerous she would have ended up robbing his house.

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                            Blizzard_Beasts — 9 years ago(December 03, 2016 09:32 AM)

                            What about the fact that she held up the army men toys and Kevin said "For the kids," then later on she asked "Where's your brothers and sisters?" and Kevin said "I'm an only child."
                            So what "kids" were those army men toys for? lol

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                              Utpe — 9 years ago(December 11, 2016 07:34 PM)

                              So what "kids" were those army men toys for? lol
                              Oh, I'm sure Kevin was simply implying that the "kids" were merely disadvantaged children that receive presents around the holidays via donation. It is plausible.
                              Though, I do want to give my input on the original topic: Kevin was a kid in an upscale neighborhood. Even though there is Tort Law, she had every right to ask, even if it seemed a bit intrusive. Back then, nobody thought about children being sold into slavery. More than likely, they were concerned about Kevin falling and breaking his neck on company property.
                              When I was 10 years old, I walked down the street to the local supermarket and bought a bag of popcorn and some candy with my allowance. The cashier never grilled me about any information concerning my relatives. I simply purchased it, walked out, and went home. This was in the early '90s, as well.
                              Nowadays, in a Big Brother society, it's easier to track your children with smartphones and the like.
                              BTW, I went ahead and viewed the original trailer. They should have kept the scene with the manager of the establishment asking Kevin the questions. It just makes more sense.

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                                gdr-02945 — 9 years ago(December 12, 2016 07:13 AM)

                                Maybe that scene was a subliminal PSA. They were trying to teach kids about strangers.

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                                  theresasound — 9 years ago(December 12, 2016 10:41 PM)

                                  But I love how he responds to her.
                                  "Cause you're a stranger." XD

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                                    sexykitten0814 — 9 years ago(December 20, 2016 03:07 PM)

                                    An 8 year old is capable of being alone for short periods of time in a familiar place, especially if a parent is not that far away. I was the same age as Kevin when this movie came out, and while I certainly never had the freedom my parents generation did, people did not hover over kids as much as they do now. I remember MANY times at that age, going into stores alone to grab a few items for my parents while they waited in the car and so did just about every other kid I knew. No one ever questioned it or saw it as a big deal. It was helpful to my parents and fun for me as it made me feel grown up. They'd give me their money and a short list and tell me to grab some candy or a toy for myself with whatever cash was left over, it was fun.
                                    There was no reason for the cashier to make such a big deal about it. It would have been different had Kevin been only four years old or appeared to be scared or in some kind of trouble, but when she asked where his mom was, and he said she was in the car, that was a perfectly logical explanation. The cashiers tone was rather rude and accusatory as if she was more suspicious of him, than concerned about his safety. She acted like he was doing something wrong. There was no reason to be grilling him like that, it was none of her business.

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                                        Scarecrow-88 — 9 years ago(December 20, 2016 06:42 PM)

                                        It was a kid buying a lot of groceries with no adult there and a fist of cash. I think she had reason to ask!

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                                          sexykitten0814 — 9 years ago(December 20, 2016 09:41 PM)

                                          She DID ask. She asked him where his mom was, Kevin replied without hesitation that she was in the car. Any reasonable person would have just accepted that answer and left it alone.

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