I'm sure this has been discussed a lot before but I don't care!
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Stratego — 9 years ago(December 09, 2016 02:02 PM)
Because she knew Mark was a big part of the problem and having him come over at that moment was not a good idea.
I agree. If you want to make up with your boyfriend after a fight, it's just really strange to invite the guy you had a fight about into your house. I also don't get how she still couldn't see what Mark's true intentions were. -
Painbow — 9 years ago(December 09, 2016 03:28 PM)
If you want to make up with your boyfriend after a fight, it's just really strange to invite the guy you had a fight about into your house
Good job she didn't invite him over then.
I also don't get how she still couldn't see what Mark's true intentions were.
You mean his true intentions to bring Chinese food over then leave?
Were you people all cheated on or something? LOL -
Stratego — 9 years ago(December 09, 2016 04:31 PM)
She did invite him INTO her house.
Sure, Mark races to Rachel's house even though she told him he didn't need to come over just to bring her some Chinese food.
You're not much different than ppllkk, now are you -
Painbow — 9 years ago(December 09, 2016 04:39 PM)
Ppllkk is mentally unwell.
So if a colleague of yours invites himself over after finding out you're upset about a breakup, you won't let him in coz he might have ulterior motives?
Are you also mentally unwell?
Seriously, the paranoia you people display is sincerely worrying. Perhaps consult a mental health professional. -
Stratego — 9 years ago(December 09, 2016 04:46 PM)
I do not invite colleagues into my house to discuss my relationship issues, especially not if I just had an argument about them having ulterior motives.
Are you also mentally unwell?
Seriously, the paranoia you people display is sincerely worrying. Perhaps consult a mental health professional.
You don't really sound right in the head yourself, buddy. -
Painbow — 9 years ago(December 09, 2016 04:56 PM)
I do not invite colleagues into my house to discuss my relationship issues, especially not if I just had an argument about them having ulterior motives.
LOL, even when they're clearly your friend? You just lock the door and rock back and forth? Again, I repeat are you mentally unwell?
Secondly there was no argument about Mark having ulterior motives; there was simply Ross believing that something was going on between Rachel and Mark. Just because he was incapable of trusting Rachel, that doesn't mean she should indulge his behavior (she's his partner, not his mother).
You don't really sound right in the head yourself, buddy.
Really? In what way?
You're heightened paranoia about male friends and colleagues coming over to console you, demonstrates an obvious psychological issue regarding trusting people and their motives. Did someone hurt you? -
Stratego — 9 years ago(December 09, 2016 05:07 PM)
Rachel was not close with Mark, she only went to a fashion show with him. She had other friends to talk to about her relationship.
Rachel called a break because they had another fight about Mark. She tried to get back together with Ross, letting Mark in was not a smart thing to do.
What paranoia are you talking about? Did your mother drop you on your head? -
Painbow — 9 years ago(December 09, 2016 05:24 PM)
Of course she was close with him, you utter moron. He was her colleague and friend the guy who helped her get a foot in the door. She socialised with him, you retarded muppet.
Rachel called a break because they had another fight about Mark. She tried to get back together with Ross, letting Mark in was not a smart thing to do.
No cretin. They had a fight about ROSS smothering her, you complete turnip. Maybe try watching the actual show. Ross was the ONLY person talking about Mark even he acknowledged that he was obsessing when he asked "is this about Mark?" and her incredulous response instantly made him regret asking.
Your boyfriend's paranoia is not YOUR responsibility. You cannot placate an untrusting partner over and over when you become an adult, you mong special needs imbecile, you might grasp this.
What paranoia are you talking about?
The fact that you think a person should reassure their partner about potential colleagues and friends being threats to their relationships demonstrates your paranoia. You are an idiot!
Did your mother drop you on your head?
Did your mother mate with a mentally disabled chimp, you half-wit spastic?
Go crawl back into the excrement cave with ppllkk. -
Painbow — 9 years ago(December 09, 2016 06:00 PM)
I'm simply correcting you.
The relationship ended because Ross was paranoid about Mark, because he smothered her, because he constantly needed reassurance, because he wasn't getting her all to himself anymore, because he was way too needy, and oh yes because he fcked the copy girl.
The idea that Rachel should have placated him, indulged him or accepted his paranoia is the opinion of either someone who has a personal bias or is (like ppllkk) a misogynist.
She has a right to a career, she has a right to male friends and she has a right not to be as eager for a relationship as serious as the one Ross wanted.
She had no obligation to reassure Ross. He is a grown man.
I've never like Rachel but people who apologise for Ross's smothering behaviour, his unjust paranoia and his eventual infidelity utterly perplex me.