I'm wondering what she'd be diagnosed with if it were today? Instead of the 70's where her erratic behavior was seemingl
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ColinChapman — 10 years ago(December 04, 2015 07:23 PM)
She failed as a mother and his dad definitely failed to be a role model as he obviously is a spineless coward who lets his wife do whatever h*** she pleases with either him or their son.
The reality however is that she actually had a good point. Her son really was a bum who couldn't pass high school, couldn't hold a job and didn't even have a good girlfriend with which to settle down with. The girl he was banging WAS a slut who slept with others and he was just another one in the line. Basically he lived an aimless life working menial jobs and dreaming about fame. Eventually he still ended up in a life of crime despite getting a chance with porn.
She was certainly to blame for him turning out like that and I doubt she encouraged him much or gave him much support. His dad? Probably saw him as a mistake as well as his marriage with her. He should have stood up for the boy.
Bottom line is he was lucky to get a break in porn. Also lucky Jack Horner took him back and gave him another chance. -
Jack_Brock — 9 years ago(July 16, 2016 01:59 PM)
She failed as a mother and his dad definitely failed to be a role model as he obviously is a spineless coward who lets his wife do whatever h*** she pleases with either him or their son.
The reality however is that she actually had a good point. Her son really was a bum who couldn't pass high school, couldn't hold a job and didn't even have a good girlfriend with which to settle down with. The girl he was banging WAS a slut who slept with others and he was just another one in the line. Basically he lived an aimless life working menial jobs and dreaming about fame. Eventually he still ended up in a life of crime despite getting a chance with porn.
She was certainly to blame for him turning out like that and I doubt she encouraged him much or gave him much support. His dad? Probably saw him as a mistake as well as his marriage with her. He should have stood up for the boy.
Bottom line is he was lucky to get a break in porn. Also lucky Jack Horner took him back and gave him another chance.
I agree that Eddie/Dirk was a slug. I don't know too many people who say when they are kids "I want to grow up and be a drug abusing porn star".
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Johnny Wadd — 4 years ago(September 14, 2021 05:50 AM)
She failed as a mother and his dad definitely failed to be a role model as he obviously is a spineless coward who lets his wife do whatever h*** she pleases with either him or their son.
The reality however is that she actually had a good point. Her son really was a bum who couldn't pass high school, couldn't hold a job and didn't even have a good girlfriend with which to settle down with. The girl he was banging WAS a slut who slept with others and he was just another one in the line. Basically he lived an aimless life working menial jobs and dreaming about fame. Eventually he still ended up in a life of crime despite getting a chance with porn.
She was certainly to blame for him turning out like that and I doubt she encouraged him much or gave him much support. His dad? Probably saw him as a mistake as well as his marriage with her. He should have stood up for the boy.
Bottom line is he was lucky to get a break in porn. Also lucky Jack Horner took him back and gave him another chance.
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dgbenner — 9 years ago(June 11, 2016 07:50 AM)
Surprised no one mentioned this as it seems really clear to me Dad wasn't equipped like Dirk.
Not that it's all her motivation (or she wants him or anything like that), as she has moments of clarity after blowups, but watch it again and see it through that lens it all seems to sync. -
HowYaLikeDemApplesWill — 9 years ago(October 05, 2016 06:36 AM)
In psychoanalytic analysis, the Jocasta complex is the incestuous sexual desire of a mother towards her son.
Raymond de Saussure introduced the term in 1920 by way of analogy to its logical converse in psychoanalysis, the Oedipus complex, and it may be used to cover different degrees of attachment,including domineering but asexual mother love something perhaps particularly prevalent with an intelligent son and an absent/weak father figure.
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WarrenPeace — 4 years ago(December 03, 2021 09:17 AM)
They were trying to show how Dirk, like so many other porn stars, come from dysfunctional and abusive homes and why they turn to porn.
Dirk ran away because there was no love lost and he was sick of living there and dealing with her ****.
So he goes to Jack to find a new home and family that accepts him into their fold or gives him what he sees is a better offer that he cannot refuse.
The writing here is weak and lame because we don't really see what the motivation was behind her being such an angry and hateful bitch.
There is only so much time in a movie and all they want to show is how Dirk runs away from an abusive mother rather than show why she has or what started those meltdowns.
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ss21974 — 3 years ago(April 23, 2022 02:27 AM)
Pretty obvious if you ask me.
Her wimpy squeak of a husband somehow sired a sexy,hung stud,but alas,he's her son and she can't lust after him,and here she is stuck with squeak-wimp.
Same as a father treating his daughter in a similar way because he married someone plain and frumpy but the daughter turned out a beauty,however she's his daughter of course and he's pissed that so many boys can lust after her yet he can't.
Some parents(who undoubtedly had a mega f**kton of issues to begin with already)can get royally incensed if their opposite-sex child turns out more attractive than their spouse.
I turned my life around,and now I'm back where I started.