Sunny was definitely hiding something this morning in her story
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rs_cyr — 9 years ago(January 04, 2017 04:52 AM)
Sunny lives in a world where she hides purchases from her husband, he never sees her without makeup and doesn't think it is a deal breaker if the husband cheats. Poor self esteem by never standing up for herself at home is masked by bragging about herself on this show.
She probably wanted to add to the conversation but yet is incapable of telling the whole truth. -
tmontyb — 9 years ago(January 04, 2017 06:14 AM)
Out of curiosity, why does this seem to bother people so much?
This is an excellent question. It's her feelings, it's her choice.
Plus, I always say "never say never" because you don't know what you'll do unless you're actually in that situation.
It takes a sick mind for someone to keep replying to your posts when you said they're on ignore. -
A_l_a_c_h_u_a_1 — 9 years ago(January 04, 2017 01:45 PM)
and doesn't think it is a deal breaker if the husband cheats
Out of curiosity, why does this seem to bother people so much?
Some people believe in integrity and honesty and loyalty, and a break in that trust and loyalty is a deal breaker, and they cannot view and trust the person who betrayed them the same way they previously did. Interesting that you can't grasp that. -
zabbree — 9 years ago(January 04, 2017 04:53 PM)
Some people believe in integrity and honesty and loyalty, and a break in that trust and loyalty is a deal breaker, and they cannot view and trust the person who betrayed them the same way they previously did. Interesting that you can't grasp that.
Try as you might to twist my words, you still don't have a clue. It also doesn't answer my question. Why does Sunny's views on her marriage bother so many of you? You're not married to her or her husband. -
A_l_a_c_h_u_a_1 — 9 years ago(January 04, 2017 05:12 PM)
you still don't have a clue
What do you mean I "still don't have a clue" - on what? You're just throwing things out there. You have this habit of deflecting what people say, and dismiss it with things like "you don't have a clue". You want to expand on what I said suggests that I "don't have a clue"?
I didn't twist your words on anything. The other poster stated that Sunny "doesn't think it is a deal breaker if the husband cheats". The meaning there is that if a spouse cheats in a relationship, then Sunny doesn't think it is a deal breaker. You responded with: "why does this seem to bother people so much?"
My response was what it was - that some people actually respect integrity and honesty and loyalty, so therefore cheating
would
be a deal breaker. Because by it's very definition,
it is cheating
. And some people actually believe - believe it or not! - that cheating is
wrong
.
It also doesn't answer my question
My response absolutely did answer your question. Your original question was why does it seem to bother people so much that Sunny doesn't think it is a deal breaker if
the
husband cheats - because that is what the poster was referring to. Nothing was ever said about
HER
husband. The poster clearly stated THE husband - implying if a husband cheats in general. You
then
changed your question in your follow up response, to "Why does Sunny's views on
her
marriage bother so many of you?"That is not what the poster originally said, and that was not your original question in response to their post. They never said "her" husband, they said "the" husband - implying husband in general, not her specific husband.
My answer was in response to why some people do agree that if THE husband in a relationship cheats it would be a deal breaker - because it breaks trust and shows lack of integrity and loyalty and honesty. The same if THE wife cheated. But here we were talking about THE husband. Not Sunny's specific husband in their specific marriage. -
zabbree — 9 years ago(January 04, 2017 05:15 PM)
So, what you're saying is your beliefs mean more than hers. She wasn't talking about everyone or anyone else's marriage. When Sunny made that comment, she was talking about HER marriage. So, it's idiotic for you and anyone else to discount how she feels about her situation. It is her choice.
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A_l_a_c_h_u_a_1 — 9 years ago(January 04, 2017 05:21 PM)
So, what you're saying is your beliefs mean more than hers
No, that's not what I said. For someone who accuses others of twisting their words, you sure do have a habit of doing it yourself!
I was simply answering the question of why it bothers some people that it wouldn't be a deal breaker if the husband cheats in a relationship. -
tmontyb — 9 years ago(January 04, 2017 06:17 AM)
Personally, I had a feeling from the very beginning of the story Sunny wasn't telling us the whole truth:
She may have omitted something, but I don't think her mother was intoxicated because I highly doubt she would have told the story.
It takes a sick mind for someone to keep replying to your posts when you said they're on ignore. -
pvd295 — 9 years ago(January 04, 2017 09:40 AM)
She may have omitted something, but I don't mother was intoxicated because I highly doubt she would have told the story.
She omitted quite a bit, but told 'enough of the story' to bring dramatic attention to herself and her holiday story. She loves attention and thrives on drama - there's no denying that - and this was one way of getting it from the audience, complete with the oohs and ahhhs.
The next day she went on vacation with her family - including her mother. She could have easily just skipped to the vacation, and elaborated on that - but there would have been no drama in her presentation. So she had to hint at the mother's accident early in the morning on December 26, and give no details. Just enough drama.
And again - what was with the comment that her mother has been a teacher for 40 years?
My suspicion is that if the mother did have a DUI, and there is some complication with NFI, then she's passively asking them to make an exception in the mother's case, as she's been a 'teacher for 40 years', and that should count for something. (That tactic is certainly not uncommon on a first offense DUI).
Sunny lives in a world where she hides purchases from her husband, he never sees her without makeup and doesn't think it is a deal breaker if the husband cheats. Poor self esteem by never standing up for herself at home is masked by bragging about herself on this show.
And this is exactly why her second story about her car being stolen from 'someone she knows' (or however she worded it) is fishy to me. I still stand by my suspicion that it wasn't stolen at all, and she let someone borrow it for the weekend without getting her hubby's permission, first. Now she's turning it around to make herself look innocent in her husband's eyes - but the truth will come out in that situation. She has proven she's not honest with her husband in many stories she has told, and I think this one ranks up with one of those.
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