Such a shame because it has got some good actors in it.
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berrrzerkerrr — 17 years ago(April 11, 2008 02:25 AM)
easy, man. to my mind, you're clearly unaquainted with any contenmporary controversial artists. try more Solondz, read P. Roth and R.M Wilson, maybe some Ellis. you'll get used to more disturbing creation and open up for something different. and then you'll stop perceiving art in such a biased way.
nobody's sympathising with a peadophile here, just picturing him as a human being. nobody's glorifying what he did, just picturing it as something disgusting - undeniably a great tragedy for the family. but in all the dramas of the film, there is an incredible, optimistic undertone. "i came!" - i loved it! -
goodbyeenemyairship — 17 years ago(April 11, 2008 11:32 AM)
This from a fan who saw Solondz speak (read on thread http://www.imdb.com/board/10362004/board/nest/100259623?d=102294355#102294355
"Often portrayed as a misanthope by critics, Solondz noted that one of the reasons he's touched on pedophilia in several films is because he wants the audience to form a (somewhat sympathetic, or at least not entirely negative) attachment to people whom society views as beyond reproach."
Settled?
Why would someone want to expose themselves to more 'disturbing' material if they didn't like what he or she had already viewed? Is it not okay to dislike a certain flavor of kool aid?
I wouldn't suggest that anyone desensitize themselves to disturbing creations in order to appreciate them more.
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mjohnson3760 — 17 years ago(April 14, 2008 05:36 PM)
I also find that people miss the whole movie. Some people get so disturbed by the individual events that they miss what the movie is actually about.
In my opinion the whole measage comes out in the very last scene. When most of the characters are sitting around the table laughing and joking having a good time even after all the trauma they have been through. Happiness is just a moment here and there. Very few if anybody at all is happy all the time. We all have out inadequecies that cause problems and pain in our lives, but if we deal with them the best we can we will still have the moments of happiness that come now and again.
I am sure this is what happened with Goodbyeenemyairship because he's so stuck on the pediphile in the story. Yes it is a very disturbing subject and portrayed in a way it has probobaly never been portrayed before in a movie, very human and I found humurous as well. But every angle of the story is pretty disturbing. The obscene phone calls, the hacked up and frozen rapist. Often times an artist needs to exagerate what most of us feel to get us to feel the emotion the artist is striving for.
One more thing that I saw in the movie is the old saying of "you cant have light without dark" or good without evil. We will never get that ocasional moment of happiness without all the other ranges of emotion as well. The movie invoked the whole sphere of emotions for me. Laughter, pain, empathy, digust and everything in between, except for maybe fear but I think thats still implied due to how human these disturbing characters were portrayed. The "Happiness" in the last scene is made so much more alive and reassuring after we go through the disturbing and intense emotions before hand.
Anyways. thats my 2 cents. I'm not saying anyone is right or wrong because this movie is definatly not for everyone. its a LOVE ir or HATE it movie, but its in my top 5 for sure.
BUT saying its the worse film ever made is just a ridicious statement. Maybe its the movie the OP hates the most but the movie itself is VERY well thought out, acted and directed. The movie achieves what very few movies have, and does it perfectly. -
goodbyeenemyairship — 17 years ago(April 18, 2008 07:28 AM)
I didn't miss anything and I was less stuck on the pedophile story than I am defending my reasons for not liking or being impressed by a particular film experience.
I do appreciate you noting that this movie is not for everyone, though.
But I have to ask are you saying this film acheived something few films have because it showed people experiencing terrible things, but having a happy ending?
I would posit that many movies provide this exact avenue.
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mjohnson3760 — 17 years ago(April 19, 2008 02:52 AM)
No, I say that because of the full spectrum of emotions the watcher goes through and honesty of the characters. Each character has some pretty hefty flaws but thats not all we are shown. Typically a rapist is shown as evil, we dont get to see the rapist as a real person. Same thing with a character that has a compulsion like obscene phone calls that character would typically be shown as just a pathetic loser.
When the credits started rolling I was not left with any feeling of dishonesty at all. Too many times I watch a good movie but it seems like a movie. At the end of Happiness I felt like I knew the characters to some extent. They didnt seem contrived.
So I guess what I meant by "something few films have" is that it showed an aspect of life in a completly honest way. Real honesty is so hard to come by in real life much less the movies that I find it to be very refreshing. The honesty is where the emotions come from which, for me at least, is what made the movie so real.I have seen movies before that bring out emotions I didnt expect but thats what the movie intended. Instead Happiness just showed real people in an honest way letting the watcher have an emotion according to who the watcher is instead of forcing a specific emotion on the watcher. I think this is very apparent just by looking at the range of reactions on this board.
And that is what I never experianced from another movie. To be honest though I havent really delved too far into indie or offbeat movies. Most of the ones I have seen seemed to be lacking or just plain boring or WAY too contrived. -
themattwest1989 — 17 years ago(August 14, 2008 02:07 AM)
basically I find it entertaining and interesting to watch a movie that is stark different and completely warped from the normal day to day mainstream movie, if the majority of films were like this i probably wouldn't be a big film fan, but since there are just a couple of these incredibly painful, emotional wrenching, and mentally stimulating films it makes them great great and a full 180degree turn from the norm And about the feelings of sympathy towards a pedophile, the idea is to change your emotion or mindset just from watching something, its not saying that pedophilia is a okay, but its saying that people have serious, sick problems, problems that are difficult or even impossible to over CUM! Also dude, what kind of movies do you watch? My fair lady? Gidget? The Gnome Mobile? It's 2008 step your decency game up n****. People masturbate (especially middle school aged boys, notorious for experimenting with it too (some people don't grow out, Philip Seymour Hoffman)) and if you have a middle school aged boy he masturbates too, unless you caught him once and burned him with a pot of water like Ed Gaines's oppressive mother used too. We should be reminded of our dark side every once in awhile, cause its when we all forget about sick beep and narcissists in the world the beep hits the fans. So please Todd Solondz keep on trucking beep The End
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spyretto — 17 years ago(August 23, 2008 03:35 PM)
Wasn't impressed much by it - introducing mundane characters and then put them in situations that cultinate with something extreme and perversive - however unreal - doesn't quite cut it as a statement about the human psyche not in my book at least. There was a similar, sex-driven film ( also overhyped ) I saw recently, called You Me and Everyone We Know people might have seen as well but this one tops it in terms of the extremety and the perversity of the situations. It brings to the fore the dark side of everyone of us - didn't know that masturbation was part of that though, you learn something new every day. Still can't escape the borefest that it was. Saved by the good acting I'd give it a 5.5 out of 10.
Welcome to the Dollhouse was better. I think people like such films because they're conditioned to like them as they're supposed to be "cutting edge".
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Interrogator — 16 years ago(April 20, 2009 03:08 PM)
This movie gets gradually better and better after every each viewings,
At first you will find this movie very dark and disturbing ofcourse of the subjects the movie handles and you will get absolutely stumped by the illogical climax. but it all make sense if you study the characters closely and their problems. They just cannot get happiness by anything they do, it gets worse and worse. To me personally the climax was the best part.
In second the taste gets even and surprisingly humourous you will be laughing at the jokes which you didn't find funny in the first viewing and so on
I watched this movie ten times already and is easily in my top ten. -
stephenpaultaylor — 16 years ago(April 22, 2009 09:56 AM)
Why??? Please tell me why??? Does this film try and make us simpithize with a beep beep scum beep paedophile?? That's when this film went from boring to "Give me one reason not to turn this film off and burn the copy I have of it". I didn'tI stuck by itonly to feel myself feeling physically ill when we have to sit through a young boy masterbating over some sunbathersI am starting to think there is something seriously wrong with the film makers who made this film!
If I was forced to point out one good aspect of this film then I would make who ever asked me that question to watch the film again and see if they still wanted to ask me after they had seen it again.
Truely, truely, truely awful, offensive and downright, well, to bring in a english phrase, bollocks.
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stephenpaultaylor — 16 years ago(April 23, 2009 04:46 AM)
ps. that sunbather was HOT!!!
the question is: were they fake or real?
"let's all clap hands!"
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hateisgreatok — 16 years ago(May 07, 2009 11:08 AM)
Jimmy!!!!! speaking of the handicapped in case you didn't notice when you're writing a reply on IMDB and you misspell a word or a few dozen, said word is underlined in red. So if you're going to take upon yourself and actually start a thread and chastise a film you're clearly incapable of understanding please don't be a lazy sod and correct your numerous error's. Also I would just like to say this is one the funniest films I've ever seen. It's brilliant.