This film is basically a soap opera.
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Lilith — 6 years ago(November 23, 2019 04:26 AM)
Yeah, I noticed that. Men get all squeamish about seeing two guys get physical and are "grossed out" by it, but if it's two women, suddenly everything is sexy and fine. "Gay" is okay as long it's not two dudes. Pppffftt.
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~AnnaMaria~ — 6 years ago(November 23, 2019 05:14 AM)
I never got having a reaction like that. Its fine if you are not attracted to same sex but why are you so threatened by two human beings who love each other or even just lust each other? Gay people have had to watch straight sex for decades and suck it up. I rather the arts reflect real life then pretend gay people don't exist and have exsisted since the dawn of time. Straight people need to get over themselves. Not to mention why watch a movie you know what the subject is if it grosses you out? OK,rant over lol.
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Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la — 6 years ago(November 23, 2019 05:15 AM)
Gender roles.
Men are expected to act a certain way, while women are more free to behave how they wish.
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martian — 6 years ago(November 23, 2019 07:34 AM)
It's not about gender roles or expectations.
It's about the literal visual and act.
One is hairy man colon being penetrated by another man, in which his penis will get fecal matter residue on it, compared with two fresh-looking, hairless smooth curvy bodies licking each other.
It's like presenting two buckets, one filled with **** and used needles, and the other filled with rose pedals from Luxembourg. Which one are you going to get more grossed out by? -
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Oliver_Sudden — 5 years ago(January 17, 2021 11:52 PM)
It's about the literal visual and act.
There are many sexual acts that are rather unpleasant to visualize. Do you envision your parents or grandparents having sex? I very seriously doubt it. What about fat Karen gettin' it on with bony Billy-Bob down the street? What about your highschool English teacher getting tea-bagged by the janitor?
The 'acts' are personal and their purpose exists between the two (consenting, of course) partners experiencing it together. Gay or straight, it doesn't matter. What
Martian
on Filmboards (or anyone else for that matter) feels/thinks when they're visualizing it, doesn't and shouldn't matter.
One is hairy man colon being penetrated by another man, in which his penis will get fecal matter residue on it, compared with two fresh-looking, hairless smooth curvy bodies licking each other.
Not all men are hairy. Some men
do
groom their bodies in preparation for intercourse, be it with man or a woman. Women do the same. With that being said, those who engage in anal sex
do
clean-up back there for the very purpose of avoiding exposure to fecal matter.
Also, lets take your description of two women being intimate -
two fresh-looking, hairless smooth curvy bodies licking each other- and let's change it to
two chunky-looking, cellulite-ridden, lumpy bodies licking each other.
How's that lookin' to ya?
It's like presenting two buckets, one filled with **** and used needles, and the other filled with rose pedals from Luxembourg. Which one are you going to get more grossed out by?
…Yikes. Now you're just over-simplifying your already-skewed perspective here and it's just not working.
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martian — 6 years ago(November 23, 2019 07:25 AM)
Men get all squeamish about seeing two guys get physical and are "grossed out" by it
Well no ****, Sherlock. God forbid a man get grossed out at the sight of another man's gaped hairy penetrated smelly colon, but not be grossed out by a woman getting her clitoris licked by another woman. Who would've thunk!?
Because a spade is not a spade.
Two women together don't stink up a room with their fart fumes.
Moral argument aside, two women together is a relatively safe and clean form of sex. It's even cleaner than heterosexual sex.
Two men together, one usually penetrates the other's anus with his penis. So now we have the image of a gaped colon. That's not a good visual to have. It's generally an unsanitary, unhygienic form of sex that causes risk of infections.
It's not about double-standard homophobia. It's about common sense. The two are very different from each other from the perspective of hygiene: far from equivalents.
Two women = clean, Icelandic spring water, spring meadows
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Oliver_Sudden — 5 years ago(January 18, 2021 12:18 AM)
Well no ****, Sherlock. God forbid a man get grossed out at the sight of another man's gaped hairy penetrated smelly colon, but not be grossed out by a woman getting her clitoris licked by another woman. Who would've thunk!?
Again, a skewed perspective. As hard as this may be, let's open our minds here, a little, and consider the other comparisons that we could make. How about a clean, freshly-shaven man performing oral sex (or whatever else) on another clean, freshly-shaven man? Oh, or how about a chunky, cellulite-ridden, unclean woman receiving gratification from another chunky, cellulite-ridden, unclean woman?
Does that change things for you at all or is the story still the same for you?
Two women together don't stink up a room with their fart fumes.
But it's not at all impossible. What if one of those two glorious sex-kittens that you enjoy visualizing so much, rips a big one right there during all the action? Would that make your fantasy a bit more enjoyable or would that be a total buzz-kill? Just another little something for you to consider.
Moral argument aside, two women together is a relatively safe and clean form of sex. It's even cleaner than heterosexual sex.
What about two men sucking each other off? How is that different?
It's not about double-standard homophobia. It's about common sense. The two are very different from each other from the perspective of hygiene: far from equivalents.
Common sense, which you have yet to acquire. Not only do you suffer from a complete lack of perspective but you're simply using
your own
sexual preferences/repulsions and biases to try to "prove" why something is "bad" or "gross".
Two women = clean, Icelandic spring water, spring meadows
Two men = farty fart feces pants, sewer, toxic sludge
Refer to point above.
Schrodinger's Cat walks into a bar, and doesn't. 