Do narcissists know that they are narcissists?
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β 5 years ago(September 18, 2020 07:38 PM)This is a baseless stereotype the author is propagating as true. Society at large holds this belief that women are constantly in competition with each other when in reality itβs a media-created illusion. Women are more likely than men to compliment each otherβs looks and build the confidence of other women. There is a lot more ingroup solidarity among women.
Ask any girl who has ever been in a club bathroom with strangers who tell her how hot she is
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"You had me at Elk Tartare"
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β 5 years ago(September 19, 2020 05:11 PM)When I encounter a girl whoβs insanely pretty and confident I just want to talk to her and make her my best friend, even if sheβs a stranger on social media. Positive vibes are contagious. The jealousy never made any sense to me.
Like you said, competition usually occurs over a guy (or girl in some cases). My ex roomie is bi and her ex girlfriend hated me just because we lived together and she felt threatened. Iβm like bitch I donβt like
why are you threatened by me? Lmao
"You had me at Elk Tartare"
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β 5 years ago(September 19, 2020 05:56 PM)Itβs a symptom of basing your entire personality and self-worth on looks and how many compliments , likes and comments you get. Everyone loves to be admired but donβt let it be the source of your self-worth, or it will cripple you.
"You had me at Elk Tartare"
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Margo β 5 years ago(September 19, 2020 07:00 PM)
So all that knowledge and wisdomβ¦did you become famous yet? Lol
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MissMargoChanning β 5 years ago(September 18, 2020 02:20 PM)
Sadly, once others get to know this narcissist, the admiration fades, and the dislike is inevitable.
You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbeltsβ¦.
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Dazed β 5 years ago(September 18, 2020 03:53 PM)
I think age most definitely factors into it, life changes us. There is also a train of thought that says very beautiful people don't need to try so hard to develop a personality.
Although in the case of my ex friend she seemed worse than ever! She said she had embraced Facebook with a passion, she loved all the likes, she documented every move she made.
Looking back I wish I'd been less self-absorbed as a youngster.
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MissMargoChanning β 5 years ago(September 18, 2020 05:54 PM)
Excuse me for butting in, but think I understand. I think that everyone can relate when it comes to our early teens and the way things were in middle school.
That is the age when we are most aware of ourselves. We want to become independent of our parents, and yet, we want to fit in with our peers. We follow the leaders, so we really aren't all that independent after all.
We are really just trying to figure ourselves out at that age, so we are naturally self centered.
The only people we did listen to were the kids we hung out with, and they were in the same boat as you⦠trying to figure themselves out.
You are normal in that respect.
Cold comfort at that age.
I would never want to go back to that time in life.
You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbeltsβ¦.
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MissMargoChanning β 5 years ago(September 18, 2020 04:27 PM)
No. Although, as my world has shrunk, due to this pandemic, I do tend to think more about myself. Just worry.
I can honestly say that I worry more about the ones I love, more than myself, so in that respect, I need not worry that I am a narcissist.
On the other hand, I find myself discussing myself a great deal in this very post.
Should I be worried???
You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbeltsβ¦.
It's Going To Be A Bumpy Night!