I want to signify to people that I'm not a boring ass straight.
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138 — 3 years ago(October 18, 2022 03:00 PM)
My sister is okay lol. Alex knows her, and even with as much as we are enemies here, we okay off site, and he knows my sister appreciates what I do for her and my mom.
But I do make money aside from getting money from family. Enough to comfortably afford some creature comforts.
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138 — 3 years ago(October 18, 2022 10:36 PM)
Nah, I'd gladly accept if I was. I'd love making transphobes uncomfortable. Alas, I am a mere occasional transVESTITE. My gender id guy. Maybe I'm genderqueer but not sure. I don't wanna label myself that just to be cool to the social justice crowd. I wanna stay authentic.
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ToastedCheese — 3 years ago(October 18, 2022 10:46 PM)
Too much emphasis is placed on gender and it supposedly being fluid.
You were born in male biological form, how you represent yourself won't ever change this. That is just your own mindgame and whatever you think, feel or do, you will still always be male.
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ToastedCheese — 3 years ago(October 18, 2022 11:29 PM)
Gender as an objective term, is either male or female form. Filling in forms, many still ask what your gender is.
Sex is the same thing, but gender replaced the term, because the term sex brought up other connotations as well. The subjective notion of gender is more to do with gender roles and how history represented them.
This is just archaic societal conditioning, so you are partly correct, but it is still subjective, so not the same for everyone.
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ToastedCheese — 3 years ago(October 19, 2022 01:41 AM)
Of course not, but you have just answered my point, the meaning changes to suit agendas.
If the general text book meaning of gender is to determine genus/kind, then it means something that can be easily recognized in the physical obvious. One is either gender female or male. The rest is all semantics.
Norman! What did you put in my tea?
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