Does it upset you? Anger you?
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P.Error — 5 years ago(January 02, 2021 09:02 AM)
When are much more hurt than men when rejected, because women put on a lot of value on the ability to attract a man.
If they, God forbid, can't get
any man they want
, they're emotionally scarred.
I try not to make it obvious I'm rejecting a girl, for I don't want to hurt her pride. I never tell girls I'm not interested - I just basically slowly ghost them, or keep it at a casual level, until we drift off naturally.
Or I'll take one for the team, so to speak, and maybe had sex with her once, and block out the bloody smell obtruding from her nethers.
Never lose your desire. -
Vlad. — 5 years ago(January 02, 2021 11:15 AM)
Attractive women get rejected, too. Just less frequently.
I know unattractive women feel shifty being rejected. That makes sense and is very sad. What about the attractive women? It happens so infrequently. Do they know how to handle it? Does it cause an existential crisis? Do they cry?
Stop. -
Nahsha — 5 years ago(January 02, 2021 01:11 PM)
Oh god. I have to participate in this bull? I can't even think why this topic would be of value.
I won't say personally because that's irrelevant. I will tell you how I now feel about the topic of women being rejected.
At least she tried.
You can't win the game if you don't try. And losers don't try. Therefore, I don't think she should feel defeated in the "love game". -
Nahsha — 5 years ago(January 02, 2021 04:02 PM)
I think you enjoy talking about this a lot. Nobody ever discusses how insecure men always are rejected before they even try.
See this is what they do. They flaunt their riches hoping that she will just run to him! A lot of women do. But the one he really wanted did not. His strategy failed. And why did he fail to get all the women- even the fat ugly, stupid mean bitches?
It is because he doesn't know how to approach women and talk to her. You seem just like that insecure guy. -
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— 5 years ago(January 02, 2021 01:31 PM)Hi Vlad. It kind of impressed me in my past if a guy turned me down especially if he turned me down because he’s in a committed relationship and telling me he loves his girlfriend.
And unsurprisingly, that only increased my attraction to him. Maybe it’s a bit of evo-psych theory / pre-selection at play there. Women want the man who other woman want and the more of our peers are attracted to you the more attractive you become. And the fact that you’re showing devotion to your girlfriend is a slight catch-22 because it makes the woman interested in you even more inclined to date you. She knows you’re faithful and trustworthy and bold enough to tell a girl “NO”.
"You had me at Elk Tartare"
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