Poll: Can you separate sex from love?
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Mina — 4 years ago(May 03, 2021 02:11 AM)
But we know women sleep with men to find a mate who will support her. And it's almost always the man who buys dinner becaus
That's a damn lie. You act like we are in Victorian age or some 3rd work country where arranged marriages are culturally relevant.
Most women are independent. They have jobs. They make their own money. Have their own bank accounts and own property. And they want equal pay. -
TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(May 03, 2021 02:25 AM)
I agree with all of that.
It's thinking with your "****" instead of dick.
That is WAY more common than thinking with your "dick" is in males.
The guy that discovered DNA thought that maybe women are NOT evolved to have emotions. If you think about it, men romanticize women, not the other way around. Men created all of the stories where women are beautiful and lovely flowers of wonderfulness.
In reality, men are the ones that protect life, invent cool stuff, go into medicine to save people, and so on, not women.
In evolutionary psychology, the explanation for why females are small, have high voices, and so on is that men have an instinct to protect kids. So, female with the most childlike feature were mated with. Masculine females were not. So, we ended up with "sexual dimorphism" that's pretty extreme.
That means women are "children" with sexual parts.
As a side note, that issue was in Interview with a Vampire. The little girl was an "adult" trapped in a child's body. That is the way some women feel.
Anyway, if that is true and women were bred for millions of year to not develop, then what women are is an overgrown child. That explains a lot of classic female behavior.
Kids tend to not care about others and only themselves and then end up restless and not happy about much.
Meanwhile, men tend to like people who like them and make friends with others where the friendship lasts a long time. Kids tend to make friends around things like who has the ball to play with, who has snacks, etc. Kids don't have a code of honor and duty, but men do and women tend not to.
The old slang term "bimbo" means a woman that acts like a child. So, that's what I'm talking about. But, thinking with your dick is the same, but women do it WAY more. -
TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(May 03, 2021 03:06 AM)
The baby talk thing in relationships is an extension of what I was talking about regarding evolutionary psychology.
People art cute, including males, in order to show they are harmless like kids. The whole being cute is extremely important to mating.
I think that's pretty normal.
The daddy issue thing is serious business though when it comes to mental health. I makes girls want to kill themselves and hurt males that have nothing to so with their issues.
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TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(May 03, 2021 03:31 AM)
Cute does not equal tantrums.
Almost all normal couples act "cute" at times and do not act like Vulcans, lol.
You are talking about "childish" behave and I am talking about "cute" behavior.
Many couples call each other "honey" and "baby" and so forth.
Guys arent like "Now, Joanne, do not call me "honey" as a prelude to wanting your clitoris rubbed. You may simply say, I am in need of stimulation Chad, as I have had a significant tension build up due to work stress and hormones. Let's be clear about our needs and dispense with the immature behavior. Is that clear Joanne".
No one talks like that and almost no humans want to have a super dry set of interactions with the opposite sex.
Many relationships fail due to the current trend of females acting like males. It's not normal in the history of humanity.
Childish is a kid you don't want and Childlike is a kid you do want. -
TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(May 03, 2021 06:19 PM)
Your responses are strange in that you don't seem to get the difference between "cute playing around" and the negative behaviors of a child.
I noted that almost no couple approaches intimacy without childlike behavior.
It is normal.
You continue to focus on general immature behavior which is not the same thing.
