For you, can someone hot not be your type?
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Aoabai — 7 years ago(October 05, 2018 11:26 PM)
Therapy isn’t being dramatic. It’s therapy. It’s not a big deal. It’s not like you’re going to a psychiatry or even a psychologist. And I din’t ask you to put yourself into a mental institution at the safety of all women. Now, that would be dramatic.
I just feel like a big way of knowing how someone’s true intentions is how they act online. And you have made that arguement before how you “dick around” on here becuase you’re just being a “troll” giving it back to the trolls. But, randomly talking about women that I’m assuming are personal in your life ARE NOT trolls on here, so I’m not sure how that really goes with your argument. -
Fugazi — 7 years ago(October 05, 2018 11:42 PM)
I mean, don't disagree. I've been to it for depression and ****. I just don't think this warrants therapy especially since I don't seriously follow this way of thinking. It's kinda like when you see a ledge and you think what if I jumped off… or when someone pisses you off and you feel you can rip their heads off. It doesn't mean you have suicidal or violent tendencies. We all have these thoughts that flow in and out.
I agree actually. I just read the situation differently. I think this place and IMDb before acts as a kind of Loki inhabiting spirit for me… like the mask in The Mask. But just think, this is the worst of me. We all have dark and problematic sides, but we don't act them out usually. My dark side is having a few stereotypes in my mind and other comparably minor things. Yes, these things are still a part of me, but I feel like having an outlet for it like this place is a healthy way to pass them.
I also think it's a reaction to how I often am IRL. I am always giving people the benefit of the doubt and being really thoughtful. Part of me just wants a break from that and be emotionally and mentally lazy because I already have tons on my mind. Again, it's not just stereotypes of women, but everyone, even if you don't happen to notice those.
The women I'm talking about usually aren't people I know well. Like some of them who were in mind with these posts were my sister's former co-workers. Snobby assholes who took advantage of my sister's niceness and helpfulness. -
Fugazi — 7 years ago(September 07, 2018 12:35 AM)
I agree that you don't decide. I'm just saying that finding someone nice to look at for me is not the same as me being attracted to them. Maybe there's a better way to word this. It was also right before bed when I said this.
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Fugazi — 7 years ago(October 05, 2018 11:21 PM)
I don't mind pretend narcissism or someone who is obsessed with fashion or fixing their hair, but actual narcissists suck. What I mean by pretend is when people jokingly act that way. Like I do that sometimes, but in reality, I see myself as middle of the road and boring, being an introvert.
As far as intelligence goes, it depends, but I generally like someone slightly smarter than I am, but not unrelatably so… or someone who is equally smart, but in a different way than I am. Emotional intelligence matters more to me than IQ. Being really dumb and obnoxious is a huge turn-off.
I think I already covered looks. It's variable. My preferences are usually for a certain type that's not always conventional, but there have been women who have charmed me enough to not care about their looks at all, and if I fall in love, nothing else matters.
️ Christina 1986-05-20 
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