So my sister killed herself 2 weeks ago……
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LorneMalvo — 11 years ago(May 12, 2014 05:18 PM)
Half sister, not sister.
My mother has a child by her 2nd marriage. We don't speak & if she dies I won't come to her funeral and in fact, it'll probably do me a favor because I won't have to worry about her harassing me any more.
Why is it my duty to take care of or look after my parents' mistakes?
America is weird that way. In foreign countries when there's a child by a 2nd marriage they're marginalized. Here our family arrangements are such clusterf-cks we don't know what to do any more.
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andromache3 — 11 years ago(January 29, 2015 05:08 PM)
Why is it my duty to take care of or look after my parents' mistakes?
I don't know what your family dynamics are but referring to other human beings as "mistakes" is very cold blooded. You sound very angry and bitter.
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ikke_for_let — 10 years ago(May 09, 2015 01:19 AM)
Without more context to the situation that is a horrible post to leave on the internet. Refering to someone as "my parents mistake" is pretty awfull. Unless she really is an idiot. In which case we need more information.
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polarispill — 10 years ago(June 21, 2015 10:06 PM)
Most people need to do things to get their mind off of such a terrible thing. My brother died when we were kids and I went back to school after about a week. I needed the distraction. When you sit at home you think about it all of the time.
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fraggle40 — 10 years ago(February 19, 2016 11:22 AM)
I'm so sorry to hear about your brother. I lost my sister to cancer 28 years ago and I went back to work after a few days. I just couldn't stand being at home anymore. I actually got more support at work.
I was gonna let you beep me, but I got my rag, and I know how you hate a mess