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ToastedCheese — 3 years ago(May 28, 2022 01:07 PM)
The femininity isn't in balance within themselves. They look for it outside of themselves and from observation, many straight guys just get with women due to a pressured image society puts onto them. They think its what they have to do and is expected. Straight dudes I have been friends with have told me this.
Its about toeing the line and being brainwashed. Straight guys, especially married ones with kids, are also likely to get accepted more easily and get the promotions vocational wise. It is the projected "normalcy".
Norman! What did you put in my tea? -
Cheeky — 3 years ago(May 29, 2022 12:27 PM)
Men are so much simpler!!!
Not so much when you want a relationship and they're laser focused on getting you in bed
If we take the time to see with the heart and not with the mind, we shall see that we are surrounded completely by angels ~ Carlos Santana -
I love hutch — 3 years ago(May 29, 2022 05:26 PM)
I know in the end it's going to be person to person, but from my POV this has been the case.
Of course, like everybody else, my perceptions are colored by my two primary gender role models, also known as "Mother" and "Father". And my mom was a LOT more work than my dad. A whole lot more. I could write a book.
"My life is over. I might as well dance with Johnny Slash!" -
ToastedCheese — 3 years ago(May 29, 2022 10:44 PM)
my mom was a LOT more work than my dad. A whole lot more. I could write a book.
I found the opposite when younger, yet as I got older, I saw my mother superseding my father in this area in leaps and bounds. My dad has just pretty much let his bitterness and obstinance get in his own way. He has SMS and that accounts for his controlling and bullying attitude too.
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ToastedCheese — 3 years ago(May 29, 2022 10:51 PM)
I think that shot of Brooke is from
Endless Love
. Just stunning!
With the sexual aspect/dynamic of men and women, I can't really comment for men here and can imagine how frustrating it must for women to get NO across to them and what this means. This sexual part though, is pretty much the first and foremost base reason why men bother with women. The psychological aspect can at times be even more frustrating for men, where women in other areas are concerned.
I'd say that is why many women seek friendships with other males too, (be they gay or straight), as they find them less complicated than their female counterparts as well. This could be a bit of a generalization, yet I state it based on comments other females have made to me as well regarding their male friends.
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Cheeky — 3 years ago(May 29, 2022 11:13 PM)
I think that men want to be with women because of sex as well
I'm kind of over it now… not really looking for a guy anymore
If we take the time to see with the heart and not with the mind, we shall see that we are surrounded completely by angels ~ Carlos Santana -
ToastedCheese — 3 years ago(May 30, 2022 02:55 AM)
If you can get some enjoyment and fun out of men who are interested in you, don't deny yourself that freedom and pleasure. You are your own person and independent. You can always turn the tables and use them. Many women think that men are going to make them whole and complete them.
I despise the
Jerry Maguire
movie….🤮
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Cheeky — 3 years ago(May 30, 2022 02:59 AM)
I get too attached if I have chemistry with someone
Right now I'm easily stressed and a man I had started seeing came on too strong too soon so I had to walk away
If we take the time to see with the heart and not with the mind, we shall see that we are surrounded completely by angels ~ Carlos Santana -
I love hutch — 3 years ago(May 28, 2022 12:36 PM)
Hey, have you ever seen "Alice, Sweet Alice"? It's a creepy movie, kind of hard to categorize. Psychological horror, maybe? With some Catholic underpinnings. Kinda shrieky, but not in a bad way necessarily. It's an entertaining watch, for sure. Shields has a small, but essential, part in it.
I don't believe we have ever talked about this film before.
Sandy, the waitress from "Friday the 13th", plays a lady cop in it!!!
"My life is over. I might as well dance with Johnny Slash!" -
ToastedCheese — 3 years ago(May 28, 2022 12:40 PM)
I have, many many moons ago. I don't recall being overtly impressed, but I may not have gotten the psychological aspects when I first saw it. It was released where I am under the title
Communion
.
The main things I recall is a woman getting stabbed in the knee and some fat dude buying it with a butchers knife. Come to think of it, this and
Deep Red
might make an interesting double.
I want to see
Final Terror
again first. I did re-watch
Madman
about a month ago and found it very entertaining.
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I love hutch — 3 years ago(May 28, 2022 12:50 PM)
Yeah, the lady is walking down the stairs and the killer jumps up and stabs her a bunch of times in the foot and it is really pretty shocking. One of the more memorable scenes in the film. The fat man is a repulsive, though wholly memorable, character. Blech!!!
"Madman"!!! I will always be grateful to that movie for giving me that one solid belly laugh! I don't ask for much!
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I love hutch — 3 years ago(May 28, 2022 01:25 PM)
Yes!!! What WERE the writers thinking?!?!? Was it the result of some last minute change in the script? And what did the actress think when she first heard that she was going to try and hide from the killer by climbing into a refrigerator?!?!
"My life is over. I might as well dance with Johnny Slash!" -
ToastedCheese — 3 years ago(May 28, 2022 01:27 PM)
It was pure absurdity, in a film that was playing it straight for the most part. Or they just wanted to enhance how stupid the character really was. She had a cute bf and she was as girly and as childish as Orson Gimp's playground obsessions.
Norman! What did you put in my tea?