How to NOT be a whore
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quarrion-1 — 11 years ago(October 04, 2014 10:20 AM)
As Dante said in Clerks, "Insert somewhere tight, preferably moist, thrust and repeat."
You probably choose men with stamina. When I leave a plane after 26 hours in the air, the thing doesn't work for a day. Nor does it after a weekend in the lab. But at least yes, we can tell most of the time, if we had an orgasm
For women, only certain men (and certain dicks) can get us to orgasm.
Certainly true but also not surprising. 80% of all females, I would also not touch.
Men pretty much only have to worry about it in prison, or when they're boys. Women have to worry about it at all ages, in all walks of life.
Did you had a juvenile phase where your urges and idealistic world views made you date outcasts? I know many girls who have experienced their sexual assaults in these 'relationships' with ex convicts or refugees or fringe minorities.
Other that - are you also worried to be caught in a bank robbery or a workplace shooting or an attack by a religious nutcase? If not then "being worried" is pretty much a choice. Unless you date risky men, indulge in binge drinking, and count drunk but consenting sex as rape, I see zero reason why you should spend time worrying about it. It 'could' hypothetically happen to both women and men at any time but these cases don't reach 16d0a worrisome likelihood. -
cookiela2001 — 10 years ago(January 27, 2016 08:19 PM)
are you also worried to be caught in a bank robbery or a workplace shooting or an attack by a religious nutcase? If not then "being worried" is pretty much a choice. Unless you date risky men, indulge in binge drinking, and count drunk but consenting sex as rape, I see zero reason why you should spend time worrying about it. It 'could' hypothetically happen to both women and men at any time but these cases don't reach a worrisome likelihood.
I believe the statistics are that 1 in 4 women will be sexually abused in her lifetime.
It's not like 1 in 4 people experience a bank robbery, a workplace shooting, or attack by a religious nutcase (to use your examples.)
If you do not understand that women are routinely vulnerable to physical attack as part of their life experience, then I'm afraid to say you do not understand women at all.
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DaveHasNoTimeForAnyOfThisBull — 11 years ago(December 12, 2014 03:30 PM)
"we're called whores if we sleep with a man for no reason at all other than the fact that we enjoy the sex"
Those people who say that are wrong.
There isn't that much rape in this world, too.
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Just_Jenna — 11 years ago(February 08, 2015 09:30 AM)
Those people who say that are wrong.
The gd dictionary.com reference says it:
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/whore?s=t
Whore
noun
1.
a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.
It's having the word "usually" in that definition that bugs me about this.
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quarrion-1 — 11 years ago(February 08, 2015 07:24 PM)
- a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.
It's having the word "usually" in that definition that bugs me about this.
I should not! The word long stopped being a designator for a specific type of sexworker and now is a pure swearword. Usually used by unsuccessful men or sexually less successful women who direct it at superior competitors.
So if you had two boyfriends and are better looking than your jealous adversary, you ARE a whore.
Men use it with an even lower threshold - any woman who in our valuable opinion overdresses and annoys as is a whore. If she doesn't annoy us, the same whore would be a babe.
So yes, you do not have to take money for sex in order to be a whore. And the 'usually' component is 5b4probably form 1830 when the dictionary was written. It is the common use now.
- a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.
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Just_Jenna — 11 years ago(February 11, 2015 03:49 PM)
It's just pathetic that people are so frightened of a woman expressing her sexuality that they feel the need to use verbal abuse to make themselves feel better about their own fear.
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oregonziggy — 9 years ago(December 07, 2016 08:01 AM)
As a guy this is what I have noticed and I think some of the other posters touched on it as well.
Guys call women whores or sluts because they are not one of the guys that particular woman is hooking up with.
Women do it out of jealousy, they are not as good looking or won't allow themselves the pleasure of having lots of sex.
There probably is not a way not to be a whore in some people's minds, but I would just say don't worry about it and live life.
I have also been on the other end of that as well. I love women and like to have lots of sex as well. I have been told by a few women in my life that they would not get serious with me because of the fact I have hooked up wth allot of women.
Now I don't pretend to know how a women feels being labeled a whore for just enjoying there bodies and having fun, but from my experience it sucks to be judged like that.
So I just live my life and those people can stay angry and judgemental while I have allot of fun.