I think its nobody's business but if people are curious, this is the forum to discuss it. I don't care about Ms Wiest's
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jmbwithcats — 14 years ago(October 09, 2011 04:48 AM)
People are way to PC, no beep it doesn't matter, aren't we over having to say so by now ?
Actually, it does matter! How else will I know if I've got a shot with her?! Lol
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thereseuphemiaabernathy — 12 years ago(August 07, 2013 01:48 AM)
Of course it doesn't
matter
but I guess people will always be curious about the personal lives of actors, and that's harmless if they don't take it too far. The thing is, if you've never heard of someone being connected with a person of either (or any) sex/gender, then sexuality isn't soooo much called into question as is desire for, or success with, serious relationships. And there's nothing at all wrong with staying single. ^~ -
SimplemindedSociety — 12 years ago(March 28, 2014 03:03 AM)
Most of you are damn homophobic hypocrites who just don't like the idea of homosexuality. Some posters on this board get it2000, others are too wrapped up in your B.S. of "it doesn't affect her acting". Of course it doesn't affect her acting. Why should it affect her acting? Nobody is speaking about her acting. Her acting is another topic.
You're just to dishonest to come out and admit that homosexuality bothers you(assuming you're even aware of it) And since you are too cowardly, it's best to say nothing than make excuses as to why we should not discuss it based on what you want. Anytime you say "it doesn't affect her acting, so who cares?", you are showing that her sexuality bothers youunless we are speaking about her heterosexual status.
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thereseuphemiaabernathy — 11 years ago(June 11, 2014 10:37 PM)
^ That was true. If people are okay with talking about stars' heterosexual relationships but immediately come out with, "Who cares whether s/he is gay?! S/he is a great actor! It doesn't matter and is none of our business!"then that does seem to indicate that they simply don't wish to know for certain whether the person in question is gay, because it would change their perception of him/her. And it's that awful mindset that makes it so hard for so many gay people to just express themselves normally, as heterosexuals feel free to do.
However, as I'd said, there being no relationship on record for her is really no reason to wonder about her orientation; it suggests more of a lack of interest in a long-term thing, and/or lack of finding the right person, and/or being very private and not divulging such information to anybody who'd post it online.
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joshua_carpino — 9 years ago(September 01, 2016 09:26 PM)
i have a question of my own:why do people get so defensive if someone wonders aloud about a celebrity's sexuality? why automatically assume that person is gearing up for some kind of negative judgement? there's something called "prurient curiosity" and it's one of the most natural things in the world. i could see getting indignant if someone were planning to wiretap wiest or hire a private detective to follow her and get the goods on her personal life,but this is just asking if anyone has read/heard anything about her status. if no one has,all they have to say is "gee,i don't know" or just not reply. this is a silly reason to get defensive on someone else's behalf.
