Despite her family being slaughtered!
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CatelynTullyDidNothingWrong — 15 years ago(September 07, 2010 07:05 PM)
Because unlike most people, she's a strong person.
Losing weight most likely made her happier too. Heaven forbid she just mope and sink into depression and get fatter instead of maturing and trusting God about it all.
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SimplemindedSociety — 15 years ago(November 11, 2010 07:34 AM)
'think that is a good description of someone, like yourself, who would make a comment like this. Absolutely disgusting'.
Really?
If my family was slaughtered,I would be in bed for a year or a mental hospital,that's how "cold" and "insensitive" I am ,fool.
But perhaps since it wasn't YOUR family who was slaughtered,and it didn't affect you personally,it doesn't seem so bad. -
gabbieispretty — 15 years ago(November 11, 2010 11:42 AM)
The weight loss bit I can understand, I would lose my appetite if that happened to my family. Also her having a baby might ease the loss a tiny bit and bring her some joy but I do find it odd how she's seemingly moved on like it never happened. I mean most celebrities whine for years about problems far less emotionally scarring
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marvin_el_martian — 15 years ago(September 09, 2010 08:26 AM)
May not always agree with you, but here I do. Her family was killed in October 2008. She had her son August 10, 2009. Means she got pregnant within a few months after the deaths in her family(and please people, save the rants for that, if you've never had a close family member die, you wouldn't understand the need to find solace in sex, which is one of the greatest affirmations of living), and with making the choice to keep the child, she HAD to get over the deaths in her family, at least enough so that it didn't pull her down into depression so she couldn't live her life for her child. Currently, I am fat, and I can say that being heavy does seem to make it harder to get over depression and such, so I agree with you saying losing weight probably helped make her happier too(exercise releases all kinds of "feel good" chemicals in your body, not to mention feeling more self confident in a healthier size). Don't understand the need for people to make her out to be the demon here
Granted, I've never had family members murdered, but I did lose all my grandparents within a year, and my mom passed away after heart surgery and I couldn't make it there to be with her before she went into surgery, so I know what it's like to try and live after the deaths of close family members. You can't let it effect, you have to move on with your life. Why's it shameful to do so? -
kimkikikim — 15 years ago(September 10, 2010 12:39 AM)
I think she's doing her best to be happy because she has a child to think of. It would be unfair to him if she were depressed and crying all of the time.
Also, we don't see Jennifer behind clothes doors, for all we know she cries herself to sleep every night.
What a sad world we live in when people even think that someone would have their family killed.
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rmcrae_deluxe — 15 years ago(September 10, 2010 01:15 PM)
"I think she's doing her best to be happy because she has a child to think of. It would be unfair to him if she5b4 were depressed and crying all of the time.
Also, we don't see Jennifer behind clothes doors, for all we know she cries herself to sleep every night."
Exactly. Jennifer said that for months after the murders she made sure to pray before going to bed and after waking up. If she didn't, her depression worsened. What did you guys expect her to do? Crawl under the covers and never come out? Her mom, brother, and nephew wouldn't want her to stop living her life and be in pain forever. The birth of her son has eased the pain, but of course it'll never completely go away.
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recook77 — 13 years ago(May 22, 2012 09:38 AM)
"Her mom111c, brother, and nephew wouldn't want her to stop living her life and be in pain forever."
EXACTLY! When you really love someone, you want that person to be happy, even if you can't be there for them. -
frolic18 — 15 years ago(September 18, 2010 11:01 PM)
Wow seriously? What gives you the right to judge her? How do you know how she's actually dealing with it? That's her business. I remember watching her perform the Star Spangled Banner shortly after her family was murdered and from what I saw she did all she could just to make it through the song. You have no right to judge her. Everyone deals with grief differently. And just because she puts on a happy face in public doesn't mean that's how she feels about it. In my opinion she's a very strong woman who had to pull herself back together for her family. How would you feel if your family was brutally murdered and people were criticizing you and telling you how you should feel about it?
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venusebony — 15 years ago(October 14, 2010 04:39 AM)
The OP and the haters are losers and obviously do not understand how much strength Jennifer Hudson has! The woman lost her FAMILY it is shameful and disgusting the negative comments! Of course, Jennifer misses her mother, brother, and nephew BUT life MUST GO ON! Jennifer's family wouldn't want her crying and being depresed all the time. We do not know if Jennifer went through intense therapy to deal with the tragic death of her family members!
I think Jennifer's son, her weight loss is a part of the physical, spiritual, and emotional transformation! I think Jennifer realizes she wants to live her life to the fullest and be there for her son!
What do people want Jennifer depresed and crying all day? Now how would that be good for her young son?
Some people are seriously twisted, delusional, sick and just cruel!