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signeks — 12 years ago(May 13, 2013 09:38 AM)
@EmperorOfTheWorld
So to all the ladies: does knowing a guy is gay totally kill any crush a girl would have for him?
not at all for me. Matt Bomer, NPH and Adam Lambert (to name a few) are still equally as drool-worthy as they were before. as you say, there is no chance in hell that this or that celeb will ever be aware of, let alone interested in, most people in the world, even though said people relate to them in this or that way, so one is free to make up any image one wants of the celebrity in question.. only very few are deluded enough to believe that he or she is actually destined to be with their celeb-crush
I absolutely adore Darren. I love him in Glee and especially in interviews. he's smart, wellspoken and unashamed of his fairly gayish mannerisms, he has a great sense of humour and he is so open about his upbringing in a gay atmosphere, that I really doubt he'd be gay and hide it. IF he were gay, he'd be loud and proud, I have no doubt!
He is awesome!!
on a side note, the world has changed, even in the last 10 years. Rock Hudson would've never made it if he'd been out back in the day, but look at how many gay people are ruling the charts and screens, both big and small one of my very favourite actors is Ian McKellan, and he's been out and proud for God knows how long, and he's one of the most respected actors outthere.. some people still feel the need to hide their true self, but most of them truly do not need to. the world is a lot more accepting in this millennia, than they were in the previous one.
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Lilly_Nicole — 14 years ago(February 20, 2012 04:33 PM)
OK, I've been lurking around long enough. No, I posted on this thread LAST YEAR! And I think there were people who know Darren who also posted that he is not gay.
I'll have to admit after that Ellen interview last February, I wondered myself, but he looked Ellen in the eye and said he was straight. Ellen. Someone who felt she had to hide her sexual orientation for years when she got in the Entertainment Industry.
Have you met Darren? I have and I could tell by the way he was flirting with these two cute college girls in the line in front of me at the 'Meet & Greet' that he is not gay. -
privatec — 14 years ago(March 04, 2012 07:57 AM)
^^^ to the above.. your hilarious.
most gay guys flirt with girls gay guys have that charm.
they know how to make a girl smile, this is why so many woman who think they find "good men" are dissappointed because alot of the time their men turn out to be gay. not all.. but alot do.
its something that happens. but just because he flirts with girls, doesnt mean anything.as its something so easy to do.
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coderedjulia — 14 years ago(March 16, 2012 12:28 PM)
He said he isn't gay, so he isn't. He has nothing to hide. It's also called acting, people. Not everyone who plays a gay character is gay in real life. That dude from Will and Grace is straight and married.
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Jenzzyuk — 14 years ago(March 30, 2012 03:19 PM)
Darren Criss is Straight I have watched Plenty of Videos on Youtube where he Talks about Being a straight man playing Gay and even Max Adler who plays Dave in Glee is Straight we are still not sure about Grant Gustin who Plays Sebastian though
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MatttheBruinsfan — 10 years ago(April 24, 2015 02:46 PM)
To be fair, any time someone speculates about a celebrity's sexuality in public there is a very vocal contingent who'll scream that he can't possibly be gay because they find him attractive, and of course that means they know the intimate details about the life of someone they've only "met" via watching TV and buying his poster for their bedroom wall.
As a note in general, people should think back to high school and the composition of the kids who were regular participants in class plays/drama club/show choir. That's the larger pool of people that most entertainment celebrities are drawn from. If 50% or more of the guys who do
Our Town
in 12th grade turn out to be gay, what are the odds that only the straight ones ever make it big in Hollywood?
I'd like to take Darren's statements about his own sexuality at face value, as they make quite a bit of sense. I have, however, heard the rumors about him being a closeted bisexual111c and having some friction with the out members of the
Glee
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AHatFullofSky — 10 years ago(April 26, 2015 07:54 AM)
When it comes to Darren a lot of the reaction by his fans stems from a very old blind item by Ausiello, who suggested that Darren got his role on Glee thanks to the casting couch (he had his own agenda for this, which can be easily seen by how he reported on Glee then and in years that followed). It was used by fans of those who were unhappy that he was a break out actor of the season because they felt their faves were more "deserving" (mostly Naya Rivera and Kevin McHale) as well as Chris Colfer fans, who unfortunately has a section of totally unhinged people following him.
It was really ugly and it still is quite often because they just cannot let it go. I suppose it is easier to believe there's someone else to blame for your faves fails than they, themselves (in the case of Chris Colfer he either takes away his roles, like Hedwig or gets them thanks to Chris, like Hedwig, or takes away from Chris Colfer, because he's breathing. Overall I do not recommend going into those parts of the web, it's just not healthy.) Darren's fans are now used to having to deal with this garbage but it is why they're quite over-protective on occasion.
Of course the whole thing is ironic because fans do know of closeted actors in the cast of Glee and they are not "called out" in this manner precisely because they are actually closeted. As for Darren, who knows and IMO it is none of our business but those bi/friction rumors started on Blind Gossip, a site that is definitely not credible in any way.
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SCsurfguy — 11 years ago(August 08, 2014 08:57 AM)
I'm gay, and I dated women too.
All the guys I've dated, from military pilots to doctors to police officers to firemen, dated women too. A lot of them even played football in high school, and some in college.
Just because a guy says he isn't gay doesn't mean he isn't. Conversely, just because a guy says he's straight doesn't mean he is either. And actors have to be just as careful as some of the dudes I mentioned above, but for different reasons.
But saying you're not means nothing.
And dating (and even marrying women) means nothing as well. I've dated guys who had been married. And even met a couple who were married when I met them. Needless to say those latter relationships were over quick.
Lastly, I had friends who didn't know I was until I told them. They didn't have a clue. So just because someone is friends with someone and says they're not means nothing either.
Now, is the dude gay?
Who knows?
If he says he isn't I'll respect that.
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mual1977 — 10 years ago(May 17, 2015 09:29 AM)
I'm gay, and I dated women too.
All the guys I've dated, from military pilots to doctors to police officers to firemen, dated women too. A lot of them even played football in high school, and some in college.
Just because a guy says he isn't gay doesn't mean he isn't. Conversely, just because a guy says he's straight doesn't mean he is either. And actors have to be just as careful as some of the dudes I mentioned above, but for different reasons.
But saying you're not means nothing.
And dating (and even marrying women) means nothing as well. I've dated guys who had been married. And even met a couple who were married when I met them. Needless to say those latter relationships were over quick.
Lastly, I had friends who didn't know I was until I told them. They didn't have a clue. So just because someone is friends with someone and says they're not means nothing either.
Now, is the dude gay?
Who knows?
If he says he isn't I'll respect that.
But at the end of the day, who knowsabout anyone really?
It goes both ways. Just because a guy says she's gay doesn't necessarily mean he's "really" gay. He just may prefer guys. Doesn't mean he's exclusively attracted to them. Most men have a strong sexual preference for one gender, but that doesn't mean that there aren't those who can be attracted to both. Preferences can also change. Thus, we'll always have men and women coming out as "gay", leaving their opposite sex spouse/partner. Bisexuality, especially male bisexuality, is a very misunderstood and taboo subject. Most men don't want to label themselves as bi, even though they're capable of being attracted to both men and women. I don't care what people label themselves ab68s. Actions speak louder than words/labels. -
Kaskinen — 10 years ago(May 17, 2015 03:13 PM)
It goes both ways. Just because a guy says she's gay doesn't necessarily mean he's "really" gay. He just may prefer guys. Doesn't mean he's exclusively attracted to them. Most men have a strong sexual preference for one gender, but that doesn't mean that there aren't those who can be attracted to both. Preferences can also change. Thus, we'll always have men and women coming out as "gay", leaving their opposite sex spouse/partner. Bisexuality, especially male bisexuality, is a very misunderstood and taboo subject. Most men don't want to label themselves as bi, even though they're capable of being attracted to both men and women. I don't care what people label 5b4themselves as.
Actions speak louder than words/labels.
And actions/practice aren't necessarily representative of the person's sexuality. Like the person you responded said, dating women and have sex means absolutely nothing. The vast majority of gay men around the world marry women because there aren't a lot of options for them (and even if they are, it's still difficult). Also, the claim that most men don't want to label themselves "bi" isn't necessarily true. I find a lot gay men try to use the "bisexual" label before just admitting they're gay because apparently anything is better than being gay. If anyone is likely to avoid labeling themselves as "bi", it's actual bisexual men themselves who opt for the "straight" label. Remember Boy George's Culture Club bandmate who was upset when he was revealed as being bisexual in his autobiography? He preferred to be just known as straight. Hell, even a lot of gay men I've met from working in psychological counseling still insist on call themselves "straight." I would imagine people that come out as "gay" after leaving their opposite sex partner are more than likely gay, not bisexual. When Ricky Martin came out and Oprah called him "bisexual" for his relationships with women, he specifically corrected her and said he's gay and has always been.
You made a good point about bisexuality, but I'm not too sure sexuality is fluid like you mentioned, especially for men.5b4 Also, if there is a "stronger sexual preference for one gender," the lesser attraction is likely not to be significant. When it is, I'm sure that qualifies as "bisexual."
In any case, it would a lot of easier if people just stopped lying, but we all know they can't. There's still a strong stigma attached to homosexual attraction and most gay/bi people (especially men) around the world do anything to cover it up and avoid the truth.