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His parents didnt seem that bad? or the movie didnt show it.

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    brennan-402-414100 — 12 years ago(June 11, 2013 04:53 PM)

    I'm not so sure. I think the fact he and his family had all of this wealth and comfort, however were still unhappy, especially his parents and the way they fought all of the time, made him question what is happiness, and how do you find it.

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      megafauna005 — 12 years ago(June 11, 2013 08:33 PM)

      In real life what did Chris' parents do to him??

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        brennan-402-414100 — 12 years ago(June 12, 2013 11:47 AM)

        I am not entirely sure, but I came across a website which is the main site behind the real story, not related to the film, and the sister of Christopher wrote a blog type piece describing what their life was like, and one of her points was that the film didn't tell the whole story of everything going on at home, suggesting it was worse than implied.

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          Samus Aran — 11 years ago(August 26, 2014 02:54 AM)

          The movie says his dad/mom verbally and physically abused each other in front of the kids. That's no joke.

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            an_iksar_betrayer — 12 years ago(March 21, 2014 11:15 PM)

            "He was a spoiled upper-middle-class white kid. He had no other major things in life holding him down - nothing to overcome.
            He had the luxury of being able to resent himself and who and where he'd come from. "
            This.
            brb parents offering to pay for HARVARD LAW SCHOOL but running away because they don't love me.
            Please

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              f-ascaso — 12 years ago(March 22, 2014 09:15 AM)

              There is more detail in the book about his family. Seems he resented his father because he had an affair and left his other family for his assistant, which is the fathers current wife in the film. It's been a while since I read the book, but it's along those lines.
              It's easy to be a rebel and be independent etc. when you are 100% sure that no matter how bad it goes or you screw up, you can always fall back on wealthy loving parents. He did what he did because of the hubris of youth, spoiled kid who thought he'd figured out something new, he was a walking clich. Most live to outgrow the phase and realize the folly, unfortunately he never got the chance.
              I don't judge his actions as harshly as many on this board, yes, he was ultimately responsible for his own demise. It could have been any of us at that phase of life, maybe not starving in the woods but something else, like wrapping a car around a tree etc.
              "if it was any good they'd have made an American version by now." Hank Hill

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                Aimless_Small_Potatoes — 11 years ago(April 22, 2014 07:48 PM)

                His dad was a horrible douchebag who valued material things over anything else.
                The wife in this movie isn't technically his wife, as he was still legally married to his first wife, with whom he had children that he didn't see. Chris finds this out when he's a teenager (16 or so?) and finds it very hard to accept that his parents lied to him and his sister their entire lives.

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                  palisade-1 — 11 years ago(April 23, 2014 06:07 AM)

                  The wife in this movie isn't technically his wife, as he was still legally married to his first wife,
                  Not true. He was legally married to Billie, but not when Christopher was born. He ran off with his assistant, leaving his first wife, and the divorce took a couple years to finalize. By the time shown in the movie they had been legally married for many years. They still are.

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                    melora72 — 9 years ago(October 08, 2016 12:18 AM)

                    His father was alcoholic, emotionally and physically abusive to his wives (he had 2) and children. That was the reason he took off. It didn't become public info until his sisters came out and told the story. Sean Penn knew something about it but needed to have the cooperation of the parents. The sisters said Chris' mother was a victim of frequent physical abuse. But when a documentary was made, both the father and the mother denied that there was ever abuse. I believe the sisters.

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                      palisade-1 — 9 years ago(October 08, 2016 06:06 AM)

                      His father was alcoholic, emotionally and physically abusive to his wives (he had 2) and children. That was the reason he took off
                      That's correct, but to clarify: the father was physically abusive to both wives, frequently in front of the children. There's no indication that he was ever physically abusive to the kids, but beating up on their mothers in front of them constituted emotional abuse of the first order. Chris's sisters from his marriage to Marcia confirm that they were terrified the father would beat them next.
                      He never did, but causing them to live in fear was abuse.

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                        fede_4488 — 9 years ago(January 23, 2017 02:40 PM)

                        At the end, the filmmakers acknowledge the family for their cooperation, so I assume they didn't go as hard on them because of that

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