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LiteraryLadyofLothlorien — 9 years ago(February 14, 2017 09:16 AM)
Why does it MATTER to anyone what my gender is?? I sure don't care about YOURS.
It matters because you lied to make yourself seem like someone you are not. You made out to be a woman with strong opinions who had come up against sexism, you made out to be a woman and then identified with several women (myself included) as someone who had experienced the sexism that women live with every day. When in reality you are a man who has never had the experience that you claimed to have experienced. And then you dare to lecture people on sexual politics, honesty and truth when you have been lying for years. You said that you were a woman MANY TIMES when you are a man. You are dishonest and a liar.
I take this particularly hard as I am someone who actually liked you and defended you as a 'woman with strong opinions'. You took advantage of me and others like me through your lies. And you are no playwright, take it from someone who actually writes plays.
Erica is honest, likeable and fiercely intelligent. I say this as someone who has argued with her REPEATEDLY. She is a wonderful poster and the board would have been half what it is without her.
We may all be using fake names but, for most of us, they reflect who we are in real life. I know mine does - I pride myself on being ladylike, I adore literature and writing and I love Lord of the rings (Lothlorien). But you, you presented yourself as something you were not, a woman.
To you, Baldrick, the Renaissance was just something that happened to other people, wasn't it? -
MissMargoChanning — 9 years ago(February 14, 2017 10:25 AM)
We may all be using fake names but, for most of us, they reflect who we are in real life. I know mine does - I pride myself on being ladylike, I adore literature and writing and I love Lord of the rings (Lothlorien).
Thank you Lady! You just gave me an excellent idea for a positive thread. It has to do with names.
"Fasten your seatbelts. It's going to be a bumpy night" -
LuciferHeavens — 9 years ago(February 14, 2017 01:16 PM)
I appreciate your attempt to explain yourself, LLoL. I can tell you're not an American, because you actually put some thought into a reply, instead of just ganging up with other cretins and squealing like a choir of stuck pigs. But there's lots there I take issue with.
It matters because you lied to make yourself seem like someone you are not.
As I've already explained above, it wasn't necessary to "lie". I merely worded things in such a way that people would conclude on their own that I was a woman. NEVER did I say, "I really am a woman." I wouldn't need to. You just drew an
incorrect conclusion
, but I never lied about it.
You said that you were a woman MANY TIMES
When? Give me even just one quote where I EVER did that.
You made out to be a woman with strong opinions who had come up against sexism, you made out to be a woman and then identified with several women (myself included) as someone who had experienced the sexism that women live with every day.
Wrong again. I made out to be a PERSON with strong opinions who had come up against sexism which I HAVE and you made the presumption that I was speaking as a woman. No, I wasn't.
Do you think that I haven't experienced sexism??
I put up with it every day, in ways that are much worse that YOU have ever had to deal with. Believe me, gay men put up with far more abuse than any woman ever does. Do women routinely get beaten to death simply because they're women? Gay men still do all the time. And
pathetically
people try to justify it by claiming that "Oh, he probably just came on to the wrong guy. I'd probably do the same thing." (Usually said by some ugly potbellied slob who is just lucky women have lower standards.)
I'm sure nobody bothers to read Tgdoignis's scatological excretions, but all that schitt about me wearing lipstick and dresses and doing drag is just typical. I am a MAN who likes real mean not some silly drag queen. He's just a homophobic ass hole with a sick and vicious agenda.
I take this particularly hard as I am someone who actually liked you and defended you as a 'woman with strong opinions'.
And you did it solely because you thought I was a WOMAN?? "Sisterhood is powerful" and all that stuff, but why can't you see that
PEOPLE
are experiencing abuse and discrimination all the time and gay men much more than women? It's sad you limit your support to your own gender. You should be better than that.
You took advantage of me and others like me through your lies.
I REPEAT: There were no lies. And HOW did I "take advantage" of you? What exactly did your "support" cost you? You should be championing HUMAN rights not just the narrow cause of
women
.
But you, you presented yourself as something you were not, a woman.
I did no such thing. You may have assumed I was, but I never said so. -
MissMargoChanning — 9 years ago(February 14, 2017 01:27 PM)
I appreciate your attempt to explain yourself, LLoL. I can tell you're not an American, because you actually put some thought into a reply, instead of just ganging up with other cretins and squealing like a choir of stuck pigs. But there's lots there I take issue with.
It matters because you lied to make yourself seem like someone you are not.
As I've already explained above, it wasn't necessary to "lie". I merely worded things in such a way that people would conclude on their own that I was a woman. NEVER did I say, "I really am a woman." I wouldn't need to. You just drew an incorrect conclusion, but I never lied about it.
You said that you were a woman MANY TIMES
When? Give me even just one quote where I EVER did that.
You made out to be a woman with strong opinions who had come up against sexism, you made out to be a woman and then identified with several women (myself included) as someone who had experienced the sexism that women live with every day.
Wrong again. I made out to be a PERSON with strong opinions who had come up against sexism which I HAVE and you made the presumption that I was speaking as a woman. No, I wasn't.
Do you think that I haven't experienced sexism?? I put up with it every day, in ways that are much worse that YOU have ever had to deal with. Believe me, gay men put up with far more abuse than any woman ever does. Do women routinely get beaten to death simply because they're women? Gay men still do all the time. And pathetically people try to justify it by claiming that "Oh, he probably just came on to the wrong guy. I'd probably do the same thing." (Usually said by some ugly potbellied slob who is just lucky women have lower standards.)
I'm sure nobody bothers to read Tgdoignis's scatological excretions, but all that schitt about me wearing lipstick and dresses and doing drag is just typical. I am a MAN who likes real mean not some silly drag queen. He's just a homophobic ass hole with a sick and vicious agenda.
I take this particularly hard as I am someone who actually liked you and defended you as a 'woman with strong opinions'.
And you did it solely because you thought I was a WOMAN?? "Sisterhood is powerful" and all that stuff, but why can't you see that PEOPLE are experiencing abuse and discrimination all the time and gay men much more than women? It's sad you limit your support to your own gender. You should be better than that.
You took advantage of me and others like me through your lies.
I REPEAT: There were no lies. And HOW did I "take advantage" of you? What exactly did your "support" cost you? You should be championing HUMAN rights not just the narrow cause of women.
But you, you presented yourself as something you were not, a woman.
I did no such thing. You may have assumed I was, but I never said so.
What???!!!!????
Sorry. I just had to make sure that this doesn't get lost. This is too much!
Can't you simply admit that you weren't honest?
"Fasten your seatbelts. It's going to be a bumpy night" -
LuciferHeavens — 9 years ago(February 14, 2017 01:33 PM)
Thanks for quoting all that, Margo.
It's such a pain when I've spent time composing a long reply, only to have some idiot report it and it's gone even as the nonsense I'm
replying to
is always still there! (Like THAT'S fair!)
This way, my words will be preserved in your reply, even if some robot "administrator" blitzes my message.
Can't you simply admit that you weren't honest?
Why would I "admit" something that isn't true? Can't you simply admit that you and everybody else jumped to mistaken conclusions?
It's too nice a day to waste it sitting at my computer. I really want to get out and go shopping.. -
MissMargoChanning — 4 years ago(March 18, 2022 02:05 PM)
Oh yeah…. I saw a picture of you and your Mummy. Cute.
Pleased to meet you!
I still have the sneaking suspicion we have met in another life…
No. Not Tom's life, or any of his various "lives".
I take it that you aren't proud of the Family Fittis.
I hate to break it to you, but I wouldn't exactly be too proud of BOOGERMCTAINT.
Still, when someone want's you, they can always cry,
You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbelts….
It's Going To Be A Bumpy Night!