Esther locking the bathroom door
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piperatthegate — 10 years ago(July 02, 2015 09:22 PM)
It bothered me too. I can understand that rule for a very young child. But a child as old as Esther? That's just wrong. What kind of 10 year old girl would be comfortable with anyone being able to walk in on them naked or using the toilet?
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fivestarhobo — 10 years ago(December 26, 2015 06:21 PM)
I lock it if I'm crapping because my little girl will come in if I Don't lock it, she follows me everywhere. I used to lock it while I showered but I'm diabetic so now I keep it unlocked in case of emergency. Other than that, no need to lock it.
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kaskait — 9 years ago(April 10, 2016 04:38 PM)
It's a safety issue.
A family relative of mine once fell in the shower and broke a rib. She locked the door and no one was able to get into the bathroom to help her. Needless to say she couldn't move to open the door herself. The door had to be knocked down. Ever since that, I think twice about locking bathroom doors.
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lazygafiltafish — 9 years ago(April 20, 2016 09:11 PM)
I know this is years late but I think locked doors are different in familes. When I lived with my parents (whether as a 10 year old or 20 year old), you did not lock the bathroom door. Shut yes, locked no particularly when you take a bath or shower. Just a safety thing.
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5uperman — 9 years ago(September 06, 2016 12:28 PM)
Most parents would take note of who is in the bathroom. And many sensible people do knock before they enter. As many have said, leaving the door unlocked is a safety thing, so the parents can help if there is an accident or cry for help.
Esther just wanted the to lock the door so the family members couldn't randomly walk in and see her scars. -
habul — 9 years ago(October 19, 2016 09:52 AM)
When I was growing up, we didn't lock the bathroom door in case of an accident, like falling in the tub. I know it's unlikely but it's just one of those things that parents often do. We also didn't look our bedroom doors when we went to sleep in case of fire or another urgent need to vacate the house. But, I also agree with your point that a self-possessed, mature girl like Esther could have been trusted to leave door locked, or to not have her mother gaurding outside. .
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brittannie19 — 9 years ago(January 18, 2017 03:19 PM)
That part of the movie was really odd. The mom's paranoia was understandable, but you have a 9 year-old girl who was recently introduced to the family and her new father and brother are still strangers to her you should respect her need for some privacy. A girl that age is on the verge of puberty after all.
It was also odd that the dad didn't pick up on Esther's attempts to appear younger than her alleged age. She did not act like a 9 year-old. The mom realized the way she dressed was weird, but the dad didn't give it a second thought. He also kept referring to himself and his wife as "mommy" and "daddy" and encouraging her to as well. This would be odd for any 9 year-old and especially a recent adoptee.
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WarrenPeace — 1 year ago(November 01, 2024 05:53 PM)
If you don't want to have the inside doors locked then remove them.
Doesn't make sense to have that rule and to keep the locks.
If there is a lock then one has the right to privacy and to use it rule or not.
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