Question about girls and virginity…
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WarrenPeace — 3 years ago(June 27, 2022 07:21 AM)
If a girl is by herself and masturbates with a dildo or a cucumber up her hole and breaks her own hymen, can she then say she has lost her virginity?
Or does it ONLY count if it is a penis?
What if she is a lesbian and makes love with another girl for the first time with her hymen still intact when they are done?
Can she claim she is no longer a virgin that way as well?
IMO a girl can lose her virginity in any of the three ways above.
For a man, the only way he can lose it is by putting his dick into another hole, of a girl or boy depending on his preference, and having sex with it.
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Pretzel — 3 years ago(June 27, 2022 08:10 AM)
The hymen can be broken in a variety of ways and is in no way a marker of virginity.
A question we hear semi-often is: Can fingering break hymens? The hymen can be broken in any number of ways. Sexual activity (including fingering, oral sex, penetration and masturbation) can break the hymen, yes, but so can the insertion of a tampon or even exercising. It’s not uncommon for hymens to tear doing totally normal, day-to-day activities, and you can break your hymen without even knowing it.
Dr. Shepherd explains that it's entirely possible to disrupt the hymen during a weight-bearing exercise and not feel a thing. That could be especially true if your hymen had already thinned — with age, for instance — by the time it tore, or if you didn’t have much tissue there to begin with. Alternatively, it’s also possible to notice a bit of bleeding and tenderness when your hymen tears. It's different for everyone.
On the flip side, it's possible to engage in sexual activity and not break the hymen.
Engaging in sexual activity doesn’t automatically mean your hymen will break. It's very possible for the hymen to remain unbroken from fingering or oral sex, explains Dr. Shepherd. It's even possible (though uncommon) to have intercourse without breaking the hymen.
It bears repeating: the presence or absence of a hymen does not prove or disprove whether someone has engaged in sexual activity.
Virginity is a social construct rather than a medical condition.
According to Piper, virginity is a social construct, rather than a medically significant term. “Many people define virginity as not having had sex yet, but what is considered sex varies from person to person,” she said. “Someone’s understanding of ‘virginity’ can be shaped by what they’ve learned from their peers, parents, family, or religion. However, there is absolutely no scientific basis for the idea of virginity.”
So you likely have a definition about what virginity entails based on your friends, what your parents have taught you, and whether or not you have specific religious beliefs. It should also be said that having sex doesn't change anything about you; it doesn't add or take away value, just as not having sex doesn't.
You are in control of your sexual activity.
There are some major problems with the concept of "losing your virginity." The term implies that it isn’t in your control. If you lose your phone, is that a conscious decision? No! We need to change how we talk about the first time a person has sex. It shouldn’t be something that someone takes from you.
“‘Loss of virginity’ implies a person is a passive receiver of sex and that they are not in control of their body and their choices,” Piper said. “It’s time that we put these harmful concepts to rest and start to reframe our understanding of sex and sexuality… When we respect the right of people to make their own decisions about if and when to engage in sexual activities, when we stop shaming people for having sex, and when we talk about pleasure, then we can start moving away from this damaging idea of virginity and ‘loss.’” -
Anal — 3 years ago(June 28, 2022 12:24 AM)
For a man, the only way he can lose it is by putting his dick into another hole
Does it "count" if it's only inserted for a few seconds or does it have to be to completion?
If a male receives a penis inside his anus, do you still consider him a virgin if his penis was not inserted into a hole? -
MissMargoChanning — 3 years ago(June 28, 2022 12:33 PM)
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ToastedCheese — 3 years ago(June 28, 2022 12:46 PM)
It would count I'd say if another chick pegged her with a strap-on, because she has been sexually intimate with penetration from another.
Virginal and innocence can go hand in hand as well. If the chick is a horn dog and ****ed herself before doing it with someone else, then technically she many be considered of virginal mindset.
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