When I see pictures of him now, I cry a little inside
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Archived from the IMDb Discussion Forums — James Spader
curious_chaos — 11 years ago(June 12, 2014 12:41 AM)
He used to be SO ATTRACTIVE. And now he's lost his looks. Back in the 90s Damn. DAMN. He was fine! And now he looks totally dif7ecferent. I love him the same as always but I'm still sad that he hasn't aged very well. Sigh
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TimmyAnn — 11 years ago(June 12, 2014 11:58 AM)
If seeing him now makes you cry that says way more about you than it does about him. If you are so shallow that you can't see that he is still an attractive, intelligent, and talented man and appreciate him as such, that is your problem not his. He may not be as jaw-droppingly stunning as he was but he looks damn fine to me and looks aren't everything, anyway.
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curious_chaos — 11 years ago(June 12, 2014 03:27 PM)
. Whoa, calm down!!
I love James Spader!! I think he is such a great actor! Looks definitely are not everything, I am well aware. I was not blessed with good looks myself I know beauty isn't everything!
Calm down, my child. I was simply stating the obvious. James Spader has lost his looks, and yes, it does make me a little sad because he was so handsome back in his prime. And now he looks very different. I'm not shallow. I'm honest. There's a difference. My love for him has not changed one bit. Please reel in your attitude a wee little bit. It's not necessary here
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TimmyAnn — 11 years ago(June 12, 2014 03:49 PM)
No he has not lost his looks. They have changed and matured but they are not lost. I am so sick of people criticizing the way he looks now and to say looking at him makes you cry is extremely insulting.
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curious_chaos — 11 years ago(June 12, 2014 05:13 PM)
I don't think he is ugly! I didn't say he was. I said he has lost his good looks from back in the day. Which, he has! I'm sorry but it's true. He is by no means unattractive now, he still has his wonderful voice and he's still charming as ever.
I think you need to calm down and relax a little. There is no reason to be upset about this. I don't cry because I think he's ugly, I cry because of what was lost. And I don't actually cry hahahah, that was a figure of speech. It's a little sad to see somebody lose their good looks. Beauty is a gift. When age takes it away, it's sad (maybe that does sound shallow but I don't care because I don't mean it that way).
Like I said before. I love James Spader. He's a great actor. He lost his looks. It's a little sad to me. Still love him. That's all. I'm sorry if my opinion offends you. Have a nice day -
Franknsense — 11 years ago(June 12, 2014 10:16 PM)
I know what you are saying: at one point he was an Adonis; today he is still an attractive guy, but he no longer is an Adonis. His charisma though has grown stronger with the years. It is a good trade off.
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indymovies — 11 years ago(June 13, 2014 01:42 PM)
The fact is that for some people the ageing process is gradual - a little more gray in the hair, a few more wrinkles - but the change in Spader was both sudden and dramatic and caused a great deal of speculation that it was the result of a health issue. I agree he's still attractive but like the OP I mourn for what once was.
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TimmyAnn — 11 years ago(September 22, 2014 10:39 PM)
Who is/isn't good looking is opinion, not fact, but a hell of a lot of people found him incredibly attractive. If you didn't that's fine, but kindly do not mistake your opinion for the majority opinion.
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tradewithme4444 — 11 years ago(October 04, 2014 11:51 AM)
dude, he is not your husband. person was stating the obvious that he is not handsome anymore. ask any woman who they would rather date. james spader or george clooney and you have your answer. no need to go bananas.