For DH defenders, if this isn't creepy or controversial, what is?
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eps_leon — 13 years ago(June 14, 2012 04:43 AM)
"So if it is ok for a 51 year old to court someone online, then is it okay for a 51 year old high school teacher to ask out his students? I consider myself to be a very open minded liberal person, but you do have to draw the line somewhere."
There is a huge difference.
A teacher influences' a person's development so much, that they could easily manipulate the person into a sexual relationship.
This is the same reason why it's a no-go on dating a psychologist, they just have too much influence over your mind.
These two didn't have a relationship like that. They were/are both consenting adults (16 year olds are adults, clueless, but still adults), with no apparent manipulation involved (at least on Doug's end, wouldn't rule out her mother).
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lilirose_74 — 13 years ago(June 14, 2012 04:59 AM)
eps_leon, I Agree! They met online similar to how some couples meet on match.com, or eharmony, but there were NO sexual talk between them online, & they just fell in love through their word s, I bet Doug & Courtney have a deep soulful connection than most couples their ages! And now Courtney will be 18, & they've been married over a year! I WISH Them all the Best!
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Thiang — 13 years ago(July 17, 2012 12:12 PM)
Besides all the valid points everyone has already made, lets not put aside the fact that it has been well established that the frontal lobes of the brain which is the center for judgment and planning don't even go through final stages of development until a person is in their 20s!! And if anybody doesn't believe me, simply google the beep you'll get a thousand sites confirming this! It's common knowledge!
My question is, how in the hell are the parents of this girl
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this beep 51 year old creep going to allow this teenage girl to make such a decision
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allow her to go all over TV and the internet making herself out to look like this out of control promiscuous little whore, while professing to be such a good little Christian? Are you kidding me?!!! The only thing I can hope is this is a hoaxshe's not really 17- wasn't 16 when they met and married and we've all been punk'd for whatever sick reason. If not, then her sick fvck parents along with that sick fvck DH, should be locked up and their respective keys discarded!!!
I used to like Doug Hutchison as an actor in movies and television, even though he mostly played roles of characters that were unsavory. I always thought he was superb in his work. Now it just makes me sick and utterly disgusted to look at my screen if he's displayed on it. Sorry, that's how I feel.
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WadesWiddleYellowBoxes — 13 years ago(July 18, 2012 03:00 AM)
His roles have sure dried up
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Thiang — 13 years ago(July 18, 2012 05:22 AM)
His roles have sure dried up
I've noticed that and it's a shame for him. Whatever this is, it's all going to come down on his head unfortunately. I don't feel sorry for him, he made his own bed but if she truly is/was that young, she's a victim.
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lilirose_74 — 13 years ago(July 18, 2012 03:39 PM)
I don't get the hate people have for Doug Hutchison. He's a terrific actor, & so what that he is married to a young girl. Elvis "dated" Priscilla at 14, & John Stamos banged a teenage girl(just google the news about it) yet everyone turned turned a blind eye about.
Doug looks happy & in love with this young woman, & I say good for him! Once she is "legal" next month, it's not going to matter anymore! I hope he does make a comeback because I think he's a great actor, but Hollywood sucks in general anyways. Doug had a good run in Hollywood, so I wish him all the best! -
kingjafarock — 12 years ago(May 13, 2013 09:09 AM)
dude is a pedophile straight up. i will not watch anything that he is in cause i dont promote that beep dude is a straight creeper and his "wife" is a whack job nasty ass attention whore oooh ill marry this guy and get my career off bitch u have no talent and you arent even that good looking.
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rockmail — 13 years ago(October 20, 2012 08:54 AM)
So it's controversial.
To all of you that accept it or hate it, they're not permanently WELDED together. If they enjoy this relationship for awhile, then she or he decides it's no longer working, they can move on to something else. Life is full of changes and opportunities. Let these people make their mistakes and triumphs, and as long as no one is killed or abused, it's their own business. -
lujlp — 13 years ago(February 02, 2013 06:21 PM)
Would it suprise you to know that in nearly 45% of the legal jurisdictions of the USA the age of majority is not 18 but in fact 16?
And if you find adults who beep physiologically mature under 18 indviduals to be pedophiles (which they arent - look up the definition of pedophile)
What do you think of adults who charge 12yr olds as adults in the legal system?
13 old enough to be charged as an adult if you commit a crime but still too young to engage in sex? -
Mattfinbell — 10 years ago(August 15, 2015 11:52 AM)
1 its youth
2 YEP
3 true
lilirose_74
You made some very valid points, but what if they are really happy together & didn't want to wait until she is a "legal adult". At least they are legally married, & they have been married nearly a year. And she will be 18 in 4 months. And once she turns 18, their marriage won't be considered as "controversial" anymore.
Also what if the roles were reversed & this was a 51 yr. old actress marrying a 16/17 year old guy? Would people be just as outraged? Probably not.
yes I would and why would people be out raged about a man making love to a 16 year old boy?
calsnowskier
I am not sure tb68hat I would be considered a "defender", but I think he is just a scapegoat. Woody Allen and Morgan Freeman have MUCH more "icky" situations, yet they are still embraced by Hollywood and get work
what did Morgan freeman do?
lilirose_74
I don't get the hate people have for Doug Hutchison. He's a terrific actor, & so what that he is married to a young girl. Elvis "dated" Priscilla at 14, & John Stamos banged a teenage girl(just google the news about it) yet everyone turned turned a blind eye about.
Doug looks happy & in love with this young woman, & I say good for him! Once she is "legal" next month, it's not going to matter anymore! I hope he does make a comeback because I think he's a great actor, but Hollywood sucks in general anyways. Doug had a good run in Hollywood, so I wish him all the best!
yet Jeffrey Jones takes pictures of a 14 year old boy and is a registered sex offender
Oh Stamos is still acting all all
activista
@eps_leon
16 year-olds aren't adults under the law, so quit trying to say that it is.
in some states it is
rockmail
So it's controversial.
To all of you that accept it or hate it, they're not permanently WELDED together. If they enjoy this relationship for awhile, then she or he decides it's no longer working, they can move on to something else. Life is full of changes and opportunities. Let these people make their mistakes and triumphs, and as long as no one is killed or abused, it's their own business.
if it as a guy and boy the guy would cruixifed
lujlp
Would it suprise you to know that in nearly 45% of the legal jurisdictions of the USA the age of majority is not 18 but in fact 16?
and for gay sex its still 18 go figure
And if you find adults who beep physiologically mature under 18 indviduals to be pedophiles (which they arent - look up the definition of pedophile)
What do you think of adults who charge 12yr olds as adults in the legal system?
13 old enough to be charged as an adult if you commit a crime but still too young to engage in sex?
thats where everything is messed up
Look like Tarzan talk like Jane! HAHA