Just testified that Heard was lying
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CorNelley — 3 years ago(May 25, 2022 05:47 PM)
It is a tear down process basically. No one will stay with someone who smacks them around right off the bat. Abusers have a process of bringing a person down, making them think they deserve the abuse. I am sure you have heard the phrases, no one will love you the way I do, no one could EVER love you etc. They will start picking apart your looks, your mannerisms and habits. Making you NOT like yourself so you will begin to believe the stuff they tell you. Mess with your head too. I have a hard time wearing make-up because my ex would ask me WHO I was earing make-up for. When I didn't wear make-up, WHY aren't you trying to look good for me etc.
The MOST interesting is abusers' want you AWAY from people that care about you. They can't do the stuff they want to with people around. Depp moved them in to his penthouses. Took them to parties and events. Stuff like that. -
nemesis — 3 years ago(May 25, 2022 06:09 PM)
Ah, I see what you mean, been there got the t-shirt etc
I have a friend going through this at the moment, thankfully he hasn't been violent that I know of but I know she doesn't tell us the whole story. He has done a real number on her confidence and her confidence in her ability as a parent. He keeps telling her she's useless, how he doesn't want her BUT spends a huge amount of time at her door harassing her. -
CorNelley — 3 years ago(May 25, 2022 05:52 PM)
Also!!! You know how she said he hit her with a cast?? I WAS hit with a cast. I will see if I can find the pictures. Cast material CUTS. Especially if he was hitting her viciously like she claimed. I was pretty surprised that was not brought up.
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nemesis — 3 years ago(May 25, 2022 06:16 PM)
Oh god, you poor thing, you're okay now aren't you?
One of the things I recall when a colleague was telling us about her abusive partner was how many people said "Why didn't you just leave?" and she explained how he'd made her terrified, alienated her from her family and friends and any support, she had nowhere to go and four children who depended on her.
I think anyone who has been through or knows someone who has been through Dv finds AH's testimony unconvincing to say the least. -
CorNelley — 3 years ago(May 25, 2022 06:36 PM)
I am good now! I have even gone to get women out of home situations. Men who are abusers are cowards, seriously. The power comes in the year down. Pretty funny having a 110 pound woman storm a house
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Joc Spader — 3 years ago(May 25, 2022 05:55 PM)
That was quick testimonial. I should have moused to the beginning of the timeline. She was the first witness at start of the day and there was no cross examination. Weird.
All those fans waiting outside for Johnny is like The Beatles. A woman was showing her painting of him with angel wings and some were dressed as dinosaurs
Tell you what…When I send my ex-wife her money…you can lick the stamps. -
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